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How do you fit charity and tithing into your budget?
  • If times are tight, do you still give? How much?
  • I've committed to X# of dollars to my church every week. If things are really tight I'll skip the week and make it up the next week. I also have started giving gifts through HEIFER. Not only do I give a contribution in the name of the person but the contribution actually buys a flock of chickens, ducks &/or geese that goes to a family so they can support themselves for only $20 dollars.
  • i went overboard this year supporting friends who were raising money for charity. it's so hard to say 'no' when they're running, swimming and biking for such great causes! this year, i'm making a budget, allotting a certain amount of money OR time (such as volunteering at their events) to each CLOSE friend who i know will once again be participating in a race or event.
  • As a recent college grad just starting out with her first job and apartment, I've learned to stick with my budget, no matter what. I love the warm fuzzies I get from donating my time and money, but lately it seems there isn't much of either to go around. At the end of every month, I go through whatever budgets I haven't fully spent ($100 for groceries, when I only really spent $85) and give a good portion of that to charity/church.

    Also, if you sign up for online bill pay for your local bills (such as Utilities), many times they'll have a "Pass it On" option. My gas company allows me to contribute to a fund that pays for heat for less fortunate families. I may not have zillions to contribute, but I feel better knowing that extra $15 went to a family in need.
  • Tithing is an absolute necessity. I can't afford NOT to tithe. There have been many times when the end of the month is near, bills are due, and I just don't have the money to cover them. Whenever I give cheerfully, trusting that God will provide, He ALWAYS blesses me by providing me with the amount, sometimes above & beyond what I need. If you feel like you can't tithe, I challenge you to do it anyway. God will reward you for your act of faith. Test Him. This is the only area of our lives in which he invites us to do so! (Malachi 3:10). Check out Robert Morris's The Blessed Life for more amazing encouragement to tithe. It shifted my perspective on tithing, and tithing has changed my life. :D
  • I have certain charities I give to and a set amount I give each month. In addition I set aside a certain percentage of any overtime I work to the local humane society. I give them extra since I foster for them and get to see first-hand what great things my money is helping to do. Even if you can only take a tour of the charity or chat with the people who work for or benefit by the charity, I highly recommend getting involved. It's much easier and more fulfilling to give when you see the dividends it pays first-hand.
  • I always end up giving too much to other families children for school fundraising. This year my daughter began Kindergarten and we have decided to allocate a specific amount towards her school for the year; more importantly we are NOT asking the other families for funds since we won't be reciprocating. We will also budget some money for the food banks and collect Box Tops for Education. We will just write a check for the school and PTA at the beginning of the year.
  • Even though I am in debt, I still think tithing is important. Whether it is tithing in my church, helping out a friend or family member in need, or supporting a community cause, giving is important. Investing in one's community is a spiritual act of faith, and in doing so, God has a mysterious way of providing. While it is important to give of your resources, you should remember that giving of one's resources does not just mean money. One of the most precious resources we can give of is our time. Lend an ear to a friend, help a family member move, or volunteer at a church or charity event. These are all acts of kindness and giving that enrich our lives and the lives of those around us and have a way of rewarding us in ways we never could have imagined instantly and down the road.
  • I wish I had the money to donate and give to charities, but I don't, so instead I try to make smarter choices about what to spend my money on and I donate my time instead of my wallet. My Bank of America card is one which gives some proceeds to Breast Cancer. I'm a photographer, so I've decided during the month of October if someone schedules a boudoir shoot I'll donate 50% to a breast cancer charity. As I build my freelance business I'm doing my "portfolio building" shoots (free shoots) for people and organizations who need it rather than just to friends and family - photographing cats in need of adoption, or fundraisers as events.
  • In 3 areas, my family gives materially. When the school year begins, my 2 college- aged daughters and I buy school supplies of every sort. The total usually comes to $150-200 or more. It used to go to their elementary school. Now to one of the schools in the lowest income in the city. One year, my youngest daughter used her spare change she saved ($64) to buy even more supplies. She was 13 at the time.
    Next, is Christmas. Again, the girls join us as they've done since they were 5 & 6. We used to buy for families at their school. They knew they were never to breathe a word that they had selected the coats they got to select and it drove home the message that even at their school there were others who may not have Christmas. Now we buy for dept. of family social services delivering $500-700 of clothing, hygiene items,books and toys. In both instances, these are budgeted.
    Because of my passion and belief in literacy, I frequent the area bookstores clearance tables where I can pick up books for under $5-usually $2. I'll usually spend $15-35 per visit, depending on the selection. the books go to 2 schools in the low income area.
    Throughout the year, I'll write non- budgeted checkes for usually $25 to send to the 3 elementary, middle and high schools our daughters attended for their Angel Fund. The fund is used for almost anything a student may need for school be it a bus ticket, sports fees, club fees, supplies.
    Lastly, I have given my time for the past 15 years to the school district. Many times donations of hands are needed as much as monetary donation. With my girls now gone from the district, I volunteer at the school of our favorite teacher-now-principal. And, God bless him - it just so happens he's at the lowest income school district. I have the privilege of giving time to children who have many struggles at home.
  • There are ways to give to charity without using money. Give your time or your ear. Everyone can give because giving is not about money.
  • I've always been taught the 10% rule. The catch for me is always....before or after taxes:-)
  • I'm always disappointed when people say they can't "afford" to give... it's almost never true. If you have a job, you can afford to give. Set up a recurring transfer of $5 a month to a charity you like. That's $60 a year, which can make a difference, while being a monthly amount that you can barely feel.

    I realized this when listening to some of my co-workers (I work at a charity) complaining about how much money they make, and it occurred to me that any one of us, at around $35,000, could make a $100 a month commitment to a charity. We can "afford" to do so. We *choose* not to.

    Obviously, everyone's circumstances are different. But I've found that even when I overspend on charity, I don't regret it. It's probably a better use of wherever that money would have gone otherwise. Don't look at it as whether or not you can afford it... you can. You have to make the choice to do it.
  • I always hold to the 10% rule. I live (I'd like to think, anyways) pretty frugally, but even then, I only had odd jobs that didn't even pay the bills for half of last year and couldn't even afford all my bills most of the time. Since then, I've gotten an okay-paying job, and I've been able to give the full 10% to my church again. I've also been supporting a child through Compassion International for years now, and I've continued that even when I didn't have a job. I think if it's important, you'll find it in your budget.
  • I too hold to the 10% rule, although it is 10% of take home.
  • I know this is old but I'm so glad to find it, today. I just got my bonus and wondered if I should include the 10% tithe. I looked at the amount and thought, "that may be too much" so I apparently forgot the times that I tithed consistently and always got a return and favor.

    When I consistently tithed, I took the 10% out of my paycheck in cash first, then divided it up for what I'd put toward the church and charity. Since I moved I asked around and read the scriptures and decided that the tithes in this day can be our charity.

    In those days, the money they gave to the church was used to build up the community, nowadays, I believe we are allowed to give the tithes to our choice of charity so long as it's helping the community (meaning no family charity).

    So, I'm going to go back and include my bonus in the tithes. We should be taking tithes out of the money we receive right? So, it's been after taxes for me. ^^
  • ANY AMOUNT HELPS! I'm actively involved in fundraising for a couple local/international charities, and when I ask for gift I always tell prospective donors that any amount helps. Give what you can, when you can. Don't feel pressured to commit to donations you can't afford, because it's still an expense at the end of the day.

    If you can afford to give $10 a month, sign up for a monthly auto debit donation. For example, I signed up to donate $10 a month to Red Cross via auto debit. I honestly didn't even feel the impact of that money being spent once a month. However, at the end of the year when I get a receipt/thank you, it's a nice reminder of supporting a cause I believe in (and a tax deductible item!).

    TIP: If you're strapped for cash, try donating clothes/shoes/food. Theses are much needed items as well, and you likely already have stuff you don't need or won't miss. You can also get a receipt for tax deductions.

    TIP: Another way to fundraise is to solicit gifts from local businesses/individuals to donate towards a charity/church raffle. For example, ask your hairdresser to donate a few hair cuts/colorings. Bars and restaurants are also happy to donate happy hours. Soliciting raffle donations is a time-friendly, budget-friendly way to support charity/church.

    TIP: Ask your employer if they match donations. If you don't ask, you don't get ;)

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