Day 1 Your Style, Your Budget

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ANALYZE IT

Before you can learn how best to get your shopping to support your life, you should know your starting point. We’re going to take a close look at your shopping habits to see what you tend to spend money on: Do you ever buy things on impulse and then never wear them? Do you buy things on sale but find that they fall apart after six months? Are you a trend-chaser who has a closet full of items that are no longer in style? Or are you the kind of person who exceeds your budget buying high-priced designer items?

Go into your Financial Inbox and take a look at all the transactions in your Shopping folder. (If you haven’t yet linked your accounts to LearnVest, get started now. While using the Financial Inbox is the easiest way to do this exercise, you can also participate by combing through your most recent credit card statements.)

Find your last 12 fashion and beauty expenses and note the cost for each. Enter that information and answer the questions in the LearnVest Purchase Appraiser below to get a rating of each purchase and an overall summary of your shopping habits.

Purchase Appraiser

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    Is It Worth It?
    If you’re in a pinch, get it. But if you have time to
    search further, put this back. You can do better.
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    Item Name:
    Appraisal:

      Total Amount Spent On:

      Summary:

      You are a savvy shopper. Nice work!
      Whoa, Nelly. You need a few rules of thumb so you learn how to spend money on things that you like and that are within your budget.
      Some of your purchases are right on the money, others not so much. Keep working on it.
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      As you filled out this calculator, you probably began noticing trends. Perhaps you found yourself rating a lot of items that didn’t exactly make your heart beat faster, or ones that weren’t particularly useful.

      To get the most out of this exercise, pick out your three most common bad shopping habits. Take out a pen and paper and examine each bad purchase to see what its weak point is. Then, pick out your top three shopping weaknesses. Maybe you buy a lot of things in the same style (if you have ten white t-shirts, this could be you!). Or—and this is probably the most financially detrimental habit—you could be buying a lot of expensive items that stretch your bank account.

      Next, come up with a new shopping rule of thumb that will prevent you from giving into your shopping weaknesses. Here are some of the most common bad shopping habits and ways to address them:

      Bad Shopping Habits

      • Don't Love
      • Not Useful
      • Over Budget
      • Too Similar
      • Too Trendy

      Buying things you aren’t in love with:

      Next time you’re on your way to the cash register, take a cold, hard look at what you have in your hands. Does it excite you and make you dream of all the places you can wear it? Or are you just buying this item because you’re bored and any old purchase will distract you?

      Your solution:

      From now on, only buy things you love. Life is too short to settle for anything but the best.

      Spending on items that aren’t very useful:

      If only it weren't true: So often the items we love just aren't all that useful. For instance, maybe you adore that thrift-store fur stole, but you’ve only worn it once since buying it last year. Now it’s crowding your drawer along with other once-worn things: eBay finds, baubles your girlfriends urged you to splurge on, the fallout from post-breakup shopping sprees.

      Your solution:

      When you’re about to buy something, ask yourself if you’ll wear it at least three times in the next three months. If it’s clothing for a special occasion, don’t buy it if you’ve bought another special occasion piece in the last six months.

      Going over budget:

      If you buy something you can’t afford, remember: It’s never stylish to be broke. Nowadays, no one has to spend a lot of money to look good. If you are resourceful enough, you can look fashionable on any budget. In fact, having a small budget can be fun, because it requires more creativity. You’ll appreciate a compliment for an outfit of Goodwill and eBay finds more than you would for a $500 pair of shoes.

      Your solution:

      Sell any designer duds you don't wear much anymore. (In Day 7, we'll reveal our tips on making a profit from your clothing.) Then, when you want to purchase something out of your budget, force yourself to make other cuts in your budget in order to save for it, and only buy it when you can pay for the entire cost upfront.

      Buying too many of the same kind of item:

      We’re all for knowing what looks good on you and for sticking to flattering shapes and styles. But at a certain point, it becomes overkill. You don’t really need seven black blazers or five gold clutches or six white tank tops, no matter how useful they are or how “different” you think they are from each other.

      Your solution:

      Hold a clothing swap. Gather your most stylish friends and revive everyone’s closets at once by playing musical chairs with each other’s discards. Force yourself to get rid of redundancies in your closet, and go outside of your comfort zone when making your selections. (In Day 2, we'll show you how to hold a successful swap.) And for your real shopping forays, set a moratorium on your overkill items, i.e. "No more black blazers until the ones I have are falling apart."

      Buying trendy items:

      Trendy items are fun, and it’s not terrible to buy one or two here or there, but if you succumb to every trend, you’ll end up with a lot of stuff you don’t want and little of what you actually need: money for a house, a car, student loans, travel, education, retirement, etc.

      Your solution:

      Stock up on the essentials (detailed later in this bootcamp), and then limit yourself to one or two trendy items per season. Bonus points if you pinpoint trends that have staying power, such as animal prints over neon. Everything else you buy must be a longer-term investment.


      GET INVOLVED

      • Anonymous

        Shoes that didn’t fit!

      • Nommo

        A 2500 purple couch.

      • Samanthaxelizabeth

         uncomfortable shoes…and anything i buy for my friend who trashes all her stuff!

      • Lisa Heartsill979

        My worst purchases have been during moments of being self-critical.  I see women that look beautiful and have lovely homes, doubts enter, and I make attempts to change who I am.  When the stuff doesn’t suit me or my life, I end up feeling ugly and stupid.  Ugly for not being like everyone else, stupid for buying stuff I don’t need.

        • Jane Jetson

          That’s sad but I can relate because I feel the same way. 

      • Brit maughan

        the worst was buying tons of blue jeans that did not fit and i did not love. my wallet was sad

      • Tanyateamaiden

        My worst purchase was a pair of lavendar, and mustard yellow pants. I bought them because they’re very cheap. I never wore them. A year later, I donated them to a charity.

      • Deborah

        A wide brimmed mink hat. $500.00 at Henri Bendels.

      • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_TAGSBI5F4QFWQMEGBSBFF772Q4 kmcn

        Purchasing $300 Designer Jeans that didn’t look any better than $10 jeans from Forever 21!

      • Tonya

        Buying gorgeous pants that I never got hemmed so I never wore them…

      • Ctwilson112

        Shoes from ebay that don’t fit well and of course, are non-returnable.

      • rawraimey

        Shoes/clothes that didn’t perfectly fit in the dressing room.

      • Chachy

        Worst fashion purchase is buying from websites that do not offer free returns.

      • StylishCanadian

        Beautiful shoes that look lovely on my feet but are uncomfortable to walk around in and/or don’t fit my lifestyle in any practical way.

      • Elainewong89

        Jeans that are a bit too tight, thinking i’d lose weight or at least give me motivation to work out more. Definitely not working for me.

      • Electricskillet

        I spent $125 on a formal dress about 10 years ago for no reason. I had nowhere to wear it.  I just liked it.  I’ve worn it once and probably never will again.

      • Mendry66

        Okay I am OBSESSED with buying makeup. I’ll buy a shade of orange lipstick and find another one that is maybe a shade or two off and still get it because although they are similiar in my eyes they look very different. Horrible habit. I’ve got to kick it! 

      • Celestialstar79

        i spent $300 on a vera wang top that looked gorgeous but when i actually put it on i hated it and never wore it. I think I sold it on ebay for super cheap. 

      • Linda Lee

        Just watched the slide show above of how to mix and match warm and cold weather items. That was the worst 3 minutes I’ve spent! Linking your boot camp about budgeting for clothes to a slide show that shows fashions at outrageous prices ruins your credibility. The least expensive item was a pair of socks for $3.00 and some change at Forever 21. And while we are on the topic, NONE of those clothes would work for any woman over 20 something or any women who doesn’t wear a size 2.

        • Shanteschuler

          I thought that maybe you were just complaining, but you are so right, none of that works for a normal person and it doesn’t even give you ideas. There is a young lady on youtube.com her channel is called MissDMakeup and she is fabulous. I think her style works for most people and she shops at target of all places. Check her out. 

          • laurashin

            Hi Shnteschuler,

            Thanks for your comment about the slide show. We’ve got some stories on LearnVest that show you how to buy clothing that spans seasons. 

            9 Fall Fashion Trends You Can Wear Into Sprint 2012: http://www.learnvest.com/2011/09/fall-fashion-trends-you-can-wear-into-spring-2012-128/The Hottest Spring Fashion Trends (For Under $50): http://www.learnvest.com/2012/02/the-hottest-spring-fashion-trends-for-under-50/Laura

        • laurashin

          Hi Linda, 

          You’re right that the items aren’t all the best for someone shopping on a budget. But the purpose of the slide show was meant more for inspiration, and the tip still stands that if you buy clothing that crosses seasons, you’ll get more out of every piece. We’ve written a couple stories that show you how to do this and feature items that are all under $50. 

          9 Fall Fashion Trends You Can Wear Into Sprint 2012: http://www.learnvest.com/2011/09/fall-fashion-trends-you-can-wear-into-spring-2012-128/

          The Hottest Spring Fashion Trends (For Under $50): http://www.learnvest.com/2012/02/the-hottest-spring-fashion-trends-for-under-50/

          Thanks for your comments, 
          Laura

        • Beamacedo

          Hi, I’m 19 and a size 0 and none of these outfits were any help at all, just in case you were wondering

      • Tspearman1

        I agree with the comments on the slide show, how does a budget boot camp on fashion tie in with those ridiculously high prices for a single outfit.  Makes me wonder if I really need the bootcamp since I know my outfits are looking better than those displayed and I paid tons less for them.  Hmmmmm….

        • laurashin

          Hi Tspearman1,

          We’ve got a couple articles on LV that show you how to buy pieces that will take you from one season to another. Check them out:

          The Hottest Spring Fashion Trends (For Under $50): http://www.learnvest.com/2012/02/the-hottest-spring-fashion-trends-for-under-50/

          And 9 Fall Trends You Can Wear Into Spring 2012: http://www.learnvest.com/2011/09/fall-fashion-trends-you-can-wear-into-spring-2012-128/

          Thanks for your comment,
          Laura

      • Ancartigia

        If I follow the slide show it will be my worst purchase ever. Come on, really?

        • laurashin

          Hi Ancartigia,

          We’ve got stories on LearnVest that feature clothes that span seasons and also are $50 and under. Check out these links:

          The Hottest Spring Fashion Trends (for Under $50): http://www.learnvest.com/2012/02/the-hottest-spring-fashion-trends-for-under-50/

          9 Fall Fashion Trends You Can Wear Into Spring 2012: http://www.learnvest.com/2011/09/fall-fashion-trends-you-can-wear-into-spring-2012-128/

          Thanks for your comment,
          Laura

      • Beamacedo

        There were a couple terrible purchases. The most flagrant was a 100$ pair of “professional” shoes I never wore. I’ve never had an office job. Other pretty bad purchases were a pink skirt I’ve worn only once because I have nothing that goes with it and  t-shirt I’ve bought from the same store about three times because I loved it but it self-destroyed after the first wear (never buying from that store again)

      • Tgsdgsr

        Even though they were inexpensive, two shirts that I bought from Wet Seal were the worst purchases I have ever bought. They looked cute, but the way the shirt was cut they didn’t really fit me right. I guess maybe I could have bought some under shirts, but they would probably cost just as much as the shirts themselves

      • Marina

        $125 Steve Madden Dubai Sandals.  

      • http://profile.yahoo.com/J5OZ4H36ICG6355VYQZH663ZEU Delia B

        Buying shoes online. They never fit right. Also, buying clothes online that aren’t petite – I always regret the fit.