How I Did It: Real Women, Real Retirement Savings

Laura Shin
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Americans don’t feel prepared for retirement.

In fact, according to a nationwide survey conducted by LearnVest and Chase Blueprint®, only 20% of people have a retirement plan at all.

More people are banking on working until their 80s, and a majority are looking to work during retirement. Given the job prospects for 70-year-olds, these aren’t plans so much as dreams.

We were also disheartened to find in the survey that just 46% of women are saving for retirement. What are the other half going to rely on in their old age?

(Are you on track for retirement? Find out with a free financial checkup.)

Today, we bring you four real stories of women who are saving for retirement, plus the story of one woman who is already retired. Read on to see what you can learn from each of them.

Jamila-horzJamila, 29

How Much She’s Saved: $41,500 saved in a 403(b) and a supplemental retirement plan

How She Did It: I started saving for retirement at 22 with my first job. I was making just over $30,000 and contributed 4%. I can’t say how I first found out about saving for retirement, but I remember growing up thinking, “I want to retire early. I don’t want to work when I’m old.” My mom didn’t save when she was working, but she had a pension and just waited for it to kick in. I was determined not to be like her when it came to savings and money.

After four years at my first employer, I got a job where I was making $40,000. I was only there eight months and didn’t contribute to retirement, but the employer did. When our staff got let go, I cashed out the $2,400 in that retirement account. I had three months of emergency savings then, but I was unemployed for six-and-a-half months and went $10,000 into debt.

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I began working at my current job in 2008, and immediately started saving 6% of my salary for retirement. I’ve increased 2% every year, so I’m currently at 14%, and I make almost $80,000. I withdrew $10,000 from my retirement account when I bought a condo in March. I didn’t incur any penalties since I was a first-time homeowner. I’ll put it back in February after I get my tax refund.

Now I’m engaged and live with my fiancé. He’s not as financially savvy as I am, so we haven’t combined finances because I don’t feel comfortable with that yet. When I bought my condo, I made sure to buy it in my own name.

The only thing I wish I could do is talk with someone about investing. I have a portfolio based on my projected retirement year, but I don’t feel confident enough to create my own mix. I am proud that I’m saving at all! So many of my friends haven’t started saving or save very little. Just do it, and enjoy the benefits later.

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LearnVest’s recommendation to Jamila: Take Start Investing Bootcamp, sign up for The Market newsletter and read the Investing section of the Knowledge Center in order to become a more confident investor. LearnVest Planning Services also offers a Portfolio Builder plan for beginning investors.

Olivia, 30

How Much She’s Saved: $3,500 saved in an RRSP, the Canadian equivalent of a 401(k) or IRA

How She Did It: In my 20s, I thought personal finance was something other people did. I spent most of that decade traveling—not living beyond my means, but not thinking about the future either.

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After finishing grad school with student loans at age 26, I realized I needed to get more organized. At the same time, my mom, who’s now 60, was planning for retirement (my parents got divorced when I was 3) and realized she should have organized her own finances better. For instance, after her divorce, she struggled to pay her mortgage, so she was withdrawing money from her retirement account at the same time she was putting money into it—and paying taxes on those early withdrawals. She’s going to be okay because she has a pension, but she says, “I wish I had known these things sooner. Why is there no personal finance education in schools?”

Three years ago, she started sending me personal finance books. I don’t know what I thought before–maybe that retirement would take care of itself–but when I read them, light bulbs went off. I realized that personal finance was about taking control of my life and that money opens up doors for you. I switched to a lower-fee bank account, set up a budget, created an emergency fund and set a goal to pay off my grad school loans. I also became more shrewd about negotiating my salary. No one is going to pay me what I’m worth unless I ask for it.

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When I was 21, about $20,000 USD came my way–from a car accident when I was 17. I spent a third on my tuition, a third on my living expenses during undergrad, and a third on a school program abroad and travel. Now, my mom says, “You shouldn’t have done that,” but I don’t regret it. I could make myself crazy and calculate how much interest that money would have by now, but I also know myself: If someone had said something to me about retirement then, it would have fallen on deaf ears. I do know that time is on my side, so starting now—at age 30—is better than starting 10, 15 or 20 years from now.

LearnVest’s recommendation for Olivia: Take Retiring in Style Bootcamp and read the Retirement section of the Knowledge Center in order to firm up her plan for reaching her nest-egg goal. 

Deborah croppedDeborah, 40

How Much She’s Saved: $89,000 in a 401(a) and a 403(b)

How She Did It: I started saving for retirement with my first job at the age of 24. I was making $28,000, contributing 5% of my salary, and the university where I worked contributed 10%. That feels unreal to me today.

When I was 28 I changed jobs and started making $38,000. I kept the same contribution–5% from me–and got 5% from the university. I stayed in that job for 10 years and put away a lot.

Almost five years ago, after I got married and had my first child, I quit. I had a really great maternity leave where, for the first year, I worked three days a week for my whole salary. When the time came to resume working full-time, our parents offered us some support if I wanted to stay home full-time with our child. There was no thought about retirement at that point; this huge life change absorbed me entirely. I was making just under $60,000, and my retirement account was about $70,000.

Now I have two sons in private school, and tuition for them is $28,000. My husband makes $80,000, and freelances a little. Our parents chip in $37,000 a year, and they are the only contributors to my sons’ 529 college savings plans.

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I hope when I return to the workforce in a year that I’ll find a position with similar great benefits, but given today’s reality, that’s probably a pipe dream. I’m really glad that I socked money away early on. When I started my career, I didn’t know I was going to take this five-year break from the workforce. It’s comforting to me that I have what feels like a significant amount.

LearnVest’s recommendation to Deborah: Explore the Retirement section of the Knowledge Center and read more on saving for her children’s college education. When she starts working again, she should also take Retiring in Style Bootcamp.

Chris*, 54

How Much She’s Saved: Has more than $190,000 in a 401(k), plus a pension

How She Did It: I started at my company as a customer service rep for a utility company when I was 18. I viewed it as a short-term job and didn’t imagine I would have an entire career at the same company. I tuned out anything about retirement—I just wanted the biggest paycheck possible.

After a few years, a friend said, “You should really do it—the company will give you money,” so I signed up. I didn’t miss seeing the extra money in my take-home pay. The company matched up to 6% of my paycheck, so every year, I put in 12% of my salary–6% from me and 6% from my company. I was making around $30,000 then.

At 22, I went back to school and worked part-time while I was in college. When I graduated, I wasn’t able to find another job that would pay me more than I was making, so I stayed and that blossomed into other careers at my company. In 1990, I moved to the IT department, when my salary was probably in the mid-50s. I’ve been there ever since but have had different positions and a steady progression of raises. Today I make almost $100,000 as a business analyst.

On top of my 401(k), I will also have a pension. The company ended that for people hired after 1990, but I’m grandfathered in. I should be able to get at least $2,000 a month from that when I retire.

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My husband, who is already retired, has a pension and gets $3,500 from it. We’ve had a relatively low mortgage. We bought the house when we were 25, when it was very cheap. (We live near San Francisco.) Signing up for the 401(k) was the best thing I ever did, and the next best was to get the house.

LearnVest’s recommendation to Chris: See a financial advisor to find out if she is on track to retire comfortably. LearnVest Planning Services offers such financial plans.

Nieves**, 74

Retired: living on Social Security income and support from daughter and son-in-law

How She Did It: I was born in Havana, Cuba, and moved to Miami when I was 18. I started working as a restaurant cook making a dollar an hour. In 1961, I moved to New York City and worked during the day in a factory making aluminum lawn chairs and in the evenings as a seamstress. I brought the rest of my family over from Cuba, which cost $1,000 in legal fees, and helped them pay their expenses until they got on their feet. I worked a lot of overtime to make $300 a week and slept maybe two to four hours a night.

In 1963, I got married to an American man and started learning English, but he told me that I didn’t have to because he would take care of us. In 1980, we separated, and in 1990, I started a commercial cleaning business in Houston and made $1,000 a week. I sent money to my mother and to my children. In 1995, my husband and I got divorced, but I received no alimony. When we were separated, I gave him $35,000 and asked him to put it away for me, but he spent it instead. In 2000, I moved to California, closed my business in Texas and began working at a hotel chain, earning about $280 a week as a hostess/cashier.

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Throughout this whole time, I was not saving for retirement. Even though we were divorced, my ex-husband was my bank and my everything. Nobody ever spoke to me about retirement. I always thought I would be able to work and that Social Security would take of everything when I needed it.

In 2003, I was taking a room service order back to the kitchen and a co-worker playfully put his foot out, but I tripped and fell into the corner of a sink. I had extensive ligament damage to my shoulders and wrist. After surgery on my shoulders, the hotel said I was too old to return to work. I was 65.

Now I live with my daughter and son-in-law and receive $684 a month from Social Security. After I had to stop working, I was depressed that I worked so hard and now have to depend on others. I buy groceries and pay for my personal expenses, but my daughter and son-in-law pay for everything else. We make it work.

*At her request, Chris’s name has been changed to protect her identity.

**Because of Nieves’s limited English skills, her story was told through an interpreter.

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  • Robinhl1014

    Unfortunately Nieves story is all too common.  I would like to hear about how HER daughter is coping with retirment savings since SHE now has to support her mother who planned poorly instead of funding her own retirement.  There are a lot of middle ages women caught in the sandwich generation, needing to support children and aging parents who had no clue how to plan for their retirement.  My MIL has a similar story to Nieves except she was supported by other for all but 10 years of her life until she had an injury at work by tripping. My MIL has a home but instead of paying off a small mortgage, she used it like an ATM, thinking real estate prices would stay high.  Now she barely has any equity and a mortgage higher than her SSI!  Guess who is stuck making up ther diference?? 

    • Jshannoncarter

      Robin, I can relate. You have my sympathy.

  • Ashleyvburton2010

    Wow, it is so great to hear the stories of real women in America. I really feel on track even though I wish I was able to put away more. But that is all going to change now, for I just started a new job or should I say a career. Though there is no retirement plan, I have my own account and my own plan to put away so much every month. My goal in the next 5 years is to increase my contributions, and then I really feel I will be on the pathway to success in my retirement.

  • http://twitter.com/PAi401k PAi

    Thank you for sharing these stories. As you stated, working
    into your 80s isn’t always a possibility.

    According to the 2012 Retirement Confidence Survey from EBRI, half of current retirees said they left the work force unexpectedly due to health problems, disability, or changes at their employer, such as downsizing.

    That is why it is so important to understand your own
    retirement savings. Thank you again for sharing these stories.

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/PKJQ2KWCVDWFVLJA6NCW7Q3RMI Katherene`

    Ms. Nieves, my heart goes out to you.  You were a hard working woman and did very well in life, until the mishap, happen.  My gift to you is that I will pray and ask GOD to bless you.  I’m so glad to know that you have family.  An extra blessing to them as well.  God bless you and your family during the holidays. 

  • Shalon

    None of these women have saved nearly enough. Granted, I’m in the same boat, but if we need hundreds of thousands or a million dollars to comfortably retire, success stories of someone closer to actually achieving such a goal would be more helpful.

  • Meg C

    I would like to hear how self-employed & independent contractors save for retirement.  I left a comfortable corporate job 4 years ago.  I work as an independent contractor so my employers do not provide 401(k) type options.  I started a ROTH IRA & put in the max each, but would love to see more creative retirement saving options outside of IRAs and such.

    • laurashin

      Hi Meg C,

      To find out more retirement savings options for you, check out our Build Your Business Bootcamp. It goes into retirement account options for the self-employed/small business owners. Just knowing that you max out your Roth makes me think you might be able to go with a SEP IRA, but you can see all the available types in the bootcamp.

      http://www.learnvest.com/how-lv-works/bootcamps/build-your-business/

      Laura