Money Mic: How Money Is Ruining My Marriage

People have a lot of opinions about money.

In our “Money Mic” series, we hand over the podium to someone with a strong opinion on a financial topic. These are their views, not ours, but we welcome your responses.

Today, one woman discusses her deep misgivings about her marriage, why she resents being the sole breadwinner and how her dynamic with her husband affects their kids.

Money is emotional and sensitive, so please respect that each person makes individual choices. For things you can do in a similar situation to strengthen your relationships and talk about money, keep reading.

I can’t even remember when my husband stopped working.

And frankly, I don’t have time to think about it, between my full-time job and my fledgling business, volunteering at an after-school program to help teenagers prepare for the professional world and mothering two children.

But when I do think about it–when I think about all the times I come home to see evidence of his entire day’s activities cluttering the coffee table, or when I have to take our shared car to work and strand him at home because he doesn’t feel like getting up to drive me–I’m angry.

Why should he get everything, when I do everything?

The idea of a wife being the primary or sole breadwinner is a relatively new one (though a new study shows that over half of American women are household breadwinners), but speaking as that sole earner: I don’t like it.

How We Got Here

My husband and I met on my first day of work, at a job with a local utility company that I got right out of high school. That job paid for me to attend college, and I still work there to this day. It took him two weeks to work up the courage to ask me out, and we’ve been together ever since, about 20 years.

I bought my house before we were married, so although he lived with me, I was the sole owner. In 2001, I took a new position and he left the utility company to care for our daughter after a surgery–I supported that, for obvious reasons. After, he re-entered the workforce to work for a friend’s mortgage company, where he made half of his previous salary.

Then, when the economy crashed in 2008, the mortgage company failed and my husband was out of a job. Since he would be home, he took on the role of Mr. Mom (though he hates when I call him that): cooking, cleaning occasionally and being there for our two children, who are now 7 and 16. Our kids are older now, and while I’d like him to go back to work, he isn’t interested.

While he was transitioning, so was I. I started my own party-planning company. Now, I work a 9-5 job at the utility company so the family has health insurance and a steady paycheck. Then, I work nights and weekends to supplement my income with party planning, which is my real passion.

I would love to do my event planning (a job my husband hates because it takes me away from the house) full-time … but right now, we need my income to pay all of our bills. I don’t have money for an emergency fund, and my husband couldn’t support us if my business didn’t pan out. Unfortunately, I don’t see that changing anytime soon.

He’s Happy With His Unemployment … and His Secret Money

Considering that my volunteer work means I look into job opportunities for young people and help them with skills such as writing their résumés, I’m in the perfect place to help my husband with his job search.

He’s been unemployed now for four years, and is supposedly looking. He says that the economy is terrible and that there are no jobs, but I remind him there are job fairs and temp agencies. I forward job opportunities to him, but he has other arguments against getting a job: The kinds of jobs available (things like working for a local transportation company) are “humiliating”; there are no jobs to be had.

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Those excuses are buoyed by the fact that he has money. From where, I don’t know, because he won’t tell me (frustrating, huh?). He thinks I’ll disapprove … which I will, if he’s getting it from his indulgent, retired parents or through gambling with his friends, both of which are possibilities. His money goes toward groceries for the family, car maintenance, hanging out with friends and personal items, like clothes. He actually doesn’t hide his spending from me, but he never tells me exactly what things cost.

My Finances vs. His

We don’t share bank accounts. I contribute to my retirement savings and our children’s college fund, as well as pay the mortgage and the bills. He contributes to none of these things, and has at this point drained his retirement savings–but I couldn’t tell you how much that was to begin with, because he’s not open about it. 

I have no savings otherwise, because all my money is needed to support our household.

I see our gender dynamic playing out in our children: Our teenage daughter is a hard worker who does her chores, participates in extracurriculars like debate team and interns with my event planning company. Our young son rarely does his chores or homework, but expects to get everything he asks for, when he asks for it.

RELATED: How to know if you’re spoiling your kid

He sees that his father doesn’t work for things, and he doesn’t, either. Plus, when I try to give him tough love, his father or grandparents cave in when I’m not around. Part of it is that he’s so young, but I worry he doesn’t have a male role model to teach him the value of hard work.

What Next?

Ideally, my husband and I would contribute equally to the household expenses. Even if he could cover half the mortgage, I would be happier. Right now, we can’t afford to go on a family vacation or renovate the kitchen, which needs some work. My husband knows how much his disinterest in working bothers me, and so does the rest of my family. (Except the children–I don’t want them to feel like I do, like their dad isn’t doing what he should for them.)

I do feel like I’m at a breaking point.

I’ve told him before that he needs to move out, but after 20 years, he knows how to apologize, promise he’ll change and keep me from pursuing a separation or divorce. My friends say that if he was married to anyone else, he wouldn’t get away with this. They say it makes me a pushover, and I’m puzzled by it, too.

I’m non-confrontational and generally very laid-back, but I have no problem standing up for myself … except when it comes to my charming, lazy husband.

Sometimes I think of getting divorced, but we live in Pennsylvania, which means legally he’ll likely be entitled to half of our assets from the marriage–half of my assets. I try so hard to be upbeat and not let this bother me, but on our last anniversary, I started telling him how I felt about his lack of contribution and motivation, and nothing has changed since then.

Our next anniversary is coming up fast … and I’m not sure we’ll make it.

Note: Since Jessica told us her story, her husband has taken a job with the above-mentioned transportation company and now contributes $150 per week to household expenses–but she is suspicious about the amount and he refuses to show her his paycheck.

Editor’s Note:

We’re very grateful that Jessica has opened up to us and shared this very personal story. Please respect her willingness to share and be sensitive in your comments.

What should she do? LearnVest Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) Sophia Bera suggests, “Sounds like they could really use couple’s therapy! She should either ask her husband to come to counseling with her or start going by herself so she can figure out what she wants to do. This is so emotionally charged that it’s not even about the money at this point. If he’s hiding money from her, that’s financial infidelity and he leaves her in a tough spot.”

What about advice for other couples struggling with income disparity? Financial planner Sophia says, “When there’s a large income discrepancy, we generally recommend each person put the same percentage of his or her income in a joint checking account to cover the household bills. That way, one isn’t using half her salary for rent while the other only uses 10%.” If you’re consistently disagreeing with your loved ones about money, it’s probably time for a “Money Talk.” Read this for more ideas on how to combine finances with a partner.

If you think your money disagreements are getting in the way of your relationship, consider speaking to a therapist, counselor or Certified Financial Planner® to help you sort out your differences and make a plan that will work for both of you. 

  • Ann Moore

    Getting my Ex back was something that i couldn’t imagine will be so easy. I’ve known speck for years, When we finally got together,things were so weird so we broke up in February 2011.In June 2012, he and I recently got back together and we were together until march of 2013 of which he told me he was not interested in the relationship again, for a reason she didn’t say. During that time my mind was completely at a state of unrest, I wasn’t eating, neither was i sleeping,talking to anyone was even more difficult, I cried,I was so depressed and stressed out that I was scared and was even planning to end it all but a friend of mine named Lucas Scott who passed through same situation adviced me to contact Dr.okakagbe to help me.because I Love and care about him deeply and I just want us to be together again, i contacted him reluctantly. I never used to believe in spell casting but i gave it a try and it was a positive result. Today we are happily married and blessed with two wonderful kids. To you all out there faced with the same problem or similar to this, you can contact Dr.Okakagbe via email address Obalaspelltemple@gmail.com once again thank you Dr. for bringing back my love. call +2348156885231

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  • Emilly Thompson

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  • bernille

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  • Matilda Morgan

    THE GREAT Dr Omon of omonualovespelltemple@hotmail.com [1] BROUGHT MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME IN JUST A ONE DAY.
    My name is Ajeshni Prasad I live in California, i got married 4months ago. My husband and I have been living a very happy and lovely life. So as time went on, I began to notice this strange attitude that he was possessing. He was now going out with other girls, to the extent that he was no longer picking up my calls, and he was not even sleeping in my house anymore. I became confused and didn’t know what to do anymore. So i became worried and stranded, that brought so many thoughts into my mind, because I have never experienced a thing like this before in my life. So I decided to visit a spell caster, to see if he can help me out. So immediately I went to the internet, where I saw an amazing testimony of a spell caster who brought someone’s ex lover back,so I contacted him immediately and I explained to him all my problems and he told me that it will be very easy for him to solve, compare to the ones he has done before. And he also gave me some proof to be really sure of his work, and he assured me that my husband will come back to me immediately after he is through with the spell casting. And also he told me to put all my trust in him, and I really obeyed him. So it was 8:00 am on the next morning, when I was about going to work, when i received my husband’s call, and he told me that he was coming back home, and he apologized to me, and told me that he is very sorry for the pain that he has cost me. And after some hours later, he really came back home, and that was how we continued our marriage with lots of love and happiness, and our love was now stronger than how it were before. And these great man also told me that once my heart desire has been granted unto me that i should go and testify of his work right here on the internet. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth today as I am writing this testimony, and I want to really thank omonualovespelltemple@hotmail.com [2] for bringing back my husband, and for bringing joy and love to my family.so you all there having difficulties or the other don,t worry every thing will be fine So my greatest advice for you out there who your husband or your wife is acting strange or behaving the same way like this, or you have any problem with your relationship or anything related to do with spell casting, is for you to go and visit this great and powerful spell caster anytime, and i assure you that he will be of help to you, and I am 100% sure that he will solve it out.once again contact him on these email now…omonualovespelltemple@hotmail.com

  • Matilda Morgan

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  • Matilda Morgan

    Hi everyone, I’m Ramos. I’ve been really depress and been in so much pains after my wife left me. Life can be very displeasing especially when i try every way possible to get her back and all i got is been scammed by this fake Spiritual Spell Casters. I love my woman so much that i will do anything to get her back. I’ve search for spell caster who is for real because I’ve really tried a lot of spell caster but not until i saw Prophet Lord, solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com I’m new on this spell stuff but after talking and chatting with Prophet Lordthen i realize he is the man i can completely trust. I know there are many of you out there who are in the same problem too and also looking for a real spell caster that can give wealth and bring back your love once.. Prophet Lord spell is real and within 24 hours of his spell my whole story got turn around and things started to be as before. Now our relationship is stronger than ever. I have no words to thank him enough. I like to recommend him to anyone who is facing hard times with your love life to contact Prophet Lord, solutionoflovespelltemple@gmail.com

  • Matilda Morgan

    Hello every body my name is Cynthia Morgan, am from United Kingdom England, I just want to share my experience with the world on how Dr iayaryi, help me, I got my love back and saved my marriage… I was married for 3years with 1kid and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and argued almost every time… it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce… I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and don’t want to lose him but everything just didn’t work out… he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce… I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when someone introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out… I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly because I was desperate and left with no choice… He did special prayers and used his power… Within 4 days my husband called me and he said he was sorry for all the emotional pains he had cost me, moved back to the house and we continue to live happily and our kid is happy too and we are expecting our second child… I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news… Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there need’s it… You can email him through his email.(driayaryi2012@hotmail.com)

  • Ann Moore

    Getting my Ex back was something that i couldn’t imagine will be so easy. I’ve known speck for years, When we finally got together,things were so weird so we broke up in February 2011.In June 2012, he and I recently got back together and we were together until march of 2013 of which he told me he was not interested in the relationship again, for a reason she didn’t say. During that time my mind was completely at a state of unrest, I wasn’t eating, neither was i sleeping,talking to anyone was even more difficult, I cried,I was so depressed and stressed out that I was scared and was even planning to end it all but a friend of mine named Lucas Scott who passed through same situation adviced me to contact Dr.okakagbe to help me.because I Love and care about him deeply and I just want us to be together again, i contacted him reluctantly. I never used to believe in spell casting but i gave it a try and it was a positive result. Today we are happily married and blessed with two wonderful kids. To you all out there faced with the same problem or similar to this, you can contact Dr.Okakagbe via email address Obalaspelltemple@gmail.com once again thank you Dr. for bringing back my love. call +2348156885231

  • cherry johnson

    i am Mrs cherry Johnson from CANADA,i want to testify of the good work of DR FRANK in my life,i lost my husband to a prostitute who vow to take him away from me by all means.
    i was confused never to know what to do until this faithful day a friend of mine called me that there is a man who can solve my problem immediately,i contacted him and he told me that my husband will come begging on his knees believe it or not on that same day he promise me my husband came to the house after 6months begging me to accept him back,so whatever your situation may look like just email the below address:
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  • James Mack

    Hello every one my name is Naomi,am from United States, i want to
    share my testimony how i got my husband back, my husband left my and
    my 4 kids and go for an other woman, when i saw both of them my heart
    was broken down, i told my best friend who was also having the same
    problem long time ago, she help me by given me Dr airemokh, contact
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    after the casting of the love spell my husband that left home for 2
    month run home and was asking for my forgiveness. thank you
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  • James Mack

    My name is joy brown, am from maim USA. i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man Dr okunade who brought my husband back to me, i had 2 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows anAd pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i shouldn’t worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man phone number and his email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just two day and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully deed what this great man asked me to do and for sure after two days i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away,since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.that’s why i want to say a big thank you to Dr okunade. This great man made me to understand that theirs no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can email him at:(okunadelovespell@gmail.com)

  • Rose Winnse

    THANKS TO GREAT DR AISABU FOR SOLVING MY PROBLEMS HIS EMAIL IS (aisabulovespell@gmail.com)

    I was married to my husband for 5 years we were living happily together for this years and not until he traveled to Italy for a business trip where he met this girl and since then he hate me and the kids and love her only. So when my husband came back from the trip he said he does not want to see me and my kids again so he drove us out of the house and he was now going to Italy to see that other woman. so I and my kids were now so frustrated and I was just staying with my mum and I was not be treating good because my mother got married to another man after my father death so the man she got married to was not treating her well, I and my kids were so confuse and I was searching for a way to get my husband back home because I love and cherish him so much so one day as I was browsing on my computer I saw a testimony about this spell caster DR AISABU testimonies shared on the internet by a lady and it impress me so much I also think of give it a try. At first I was scared but when I think of what me and my kids are passing through so I contact him and he told me to stay calm for just 24 hours that my husband shall come back to me and to my best surprise I received a call from my husband on the second day asking after the kids and I called DR. AISABU and he said your problems are solved my child. so this was how I get my family back after a long stress of brake up by an evil lady so with all this help from DR AISABU, I want you all on this forum to join me to say a huge thanks to DR AISABU, and I will also advice for any one in such or similar problems or any kind of problems should also contact him his email is (aisabulovespell@gmail.com) he is the solution to all your problems and predicaments in life. Once again his email address is (aisabulovespell@gmail.com)

    HE IS SPECIALIZING IN THE FOLLOWING SPELL.

    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) If you always have bad dreams.
    (3) If you want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) If you want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) If you want to be rich.
    (7) If you want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) How you been scammed and you want to recover you lost money.
    (10) If you want to stop your divorce.
    (11) If you want to divorce your husband.
    (12) If you want your wishes to be granted.
    (13) Pregnancy spells to conceive baby
    (14) Guarantee you win the troubling court cases & divorce no matter how what stage
    (15) Stop your marriage or relationship from breaking apart.
    (16) If you have any sickness like (H I V), (CANCER) or any sickness.
    (17) If you need prayers for deliverance for your child or yourself.
    Once again make sure you contact him if you have any problem he will help you. His email address is (aisabulovespell@gmail.com) contact him immediately
    ……

  • http://www.exback.com caro

    After being in relationship with my husband for nine years,he broke up
    with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in
    vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I
    begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. I explained
    my problem to someone online and she suggested that I should rather
    contact a spell caster that could help me cast a spell to bring him back
    but I am the type that never believed in spell, I had no choice than to
    try it, I mailed the spell caster, and he told me there was no problem
    that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return
    to me before three days, he cast the spell and surprisingly in the
    second day, it was around 4pm. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I
    answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for
    everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he
    loves me so much. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we
    started living together happily again. Since then, I have made promise
    that anybody I know that have a relationship problem, I would be of help
    to such person by referring him or her to the only real and powerful
    spell caster who helped me with my own problem and who is different from
    all the fake ones out there. Anybody could need the help of the spell
    caster, his email is okunspelltemple@outlook.com

  • Kristine

    Do you know I had tried many casters before you and I have to say you are excellent in every way. Affordable spells that work!! not like some out there charging so much yet no results lol..and your customer service that’s so good too. You handle each client in a friendly and personal way. I really am very impressed… Keep doing what you’re doing..you’ve won me over that’s for sure. Thanks Dr. Abu. Contact him and he shall make you very happy no matter what your situation is, just try you have nothing to loose about this dear reader. Ominighospelltemple@gmail.com

  • Maria A Thompson

    I have to keep you updated because I’m simply AMAZED at the results of this spell you performr me. Everything is going so well and EXACTLY how you said it would be. Even though it took 5 months to fully progress, it was so worth it because things are just about at perfection! How you took my situation and completely turned it around to give me exactly what I wanted is beyond me, but something I will never question and just be completely grateful for coming across you. Bless you for helping so many people get what their heart desires. You truly gifted foed! . you can also contact him for help as well (arigbospelltemple@gmail.com)…

  • Frank Marian Frank Marian

    >Hello my name is frank Marian from USA I never
    >believe in love spells until I experience Dr.
    > DR Ofemo temple, and after he cast a love spell for me
    >my Ex called me to apologize for the pain that she has

    >caused me and till today we are living a happy family,
    >if you need a right place to solve your problems
    >contact DR Ofemospelltemple@gmail.com is the right choice. he is a

    >great man that have been casting spells with years of
    >experience, he cast spells for different purposes like:

    >(1)If you want your ex back.
    >(2) if you always have bad dreams.
    >(3)You want to be promoted in your office.

    >(4)You want women/ men to run after you.
    >(5)If you want a child.
    >(6)[You want to be rich.
    >(7)You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours
    >forever.
    >(8)If you need financial assistance.

    >(9)Herbal care
    >
    >Contact him today on: drofemospelltemple@gmail.com

  • Bradley Speck

    great spell caster

    i want to thank God for using DR OLOKUM as my source of saviour after 2year of joblessness and my lover left me alone for 2 years,Have just been heart broken until i go in contact with DR OLOKUM after i saw a ladies testimony on how she was helped by this same DR OLOKUM,So i decided to get in contact with him and when i told him all my problems he laughed and said this is not a problem that everything will be ok in 3days time.Exactly the 3rd day my ex lover called me i was shocked and what surprise me the most was that a company i applied for over 4month called me and said i should resume work as soon as possible.Am so grateful to dr OLOKUM if you wish in contacting him LAVENDERLOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM or is cell number +2347053977842. He do cast the spell as following

    (1) If you want your ex back.

    (2) you need a divorce in your relationship

    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.

    (4) You want women & men to run after you.

    (5) If you want a child.

    (6) You want to be rich.

    (7) You want to tie your husband & wife to be yours forever.

    (8) If you need financial assistance.

    (9) Herbal care

    Contact him today on: LAVENDERLOVESPELL@yahoo.com

  • james

    I NEVER BELIEVED IN LOVE SPELLS UNTIL I MET THIS WORLD’S TOP SPELL CASTER. HE IS REALLY POWERFUL AND COULD HELP CAST SPELLS TO BRING BACK ONE’S GONE,LOST,MISBEHAVING LOVER AND MAGIC MONEY SPELL OR SPELL FOR A GOOD JOB.I’M NOW HAPPY & A LIVING TESTIMONY COS THE WOMAN I HAD WANTED TO MARRY LEFT ME 2 WEEKS BEFORE OUR WEDDING AND MY LIFE WAS UPSIDE DOWN COS OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS BEEN ON FOR 2YEARS… I REALLY LOVED HIM, BUT HIS MOTHER WAS AGAINST US AND HE HAD NO GOOD PAYING JOB. SO WHEN I MET THIS SPELL CASTER, I TOLD HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND EXPLAINED THE SITUATION OF THINGS TO HIM..AT FIRST I WAS UNDECIDED,SKEPTICAL AND DOUBTFUL, BUT I JUST GAVE IT A TRY. AND IN 7 DAYS WHEN I RETURNED TO USA, MY GIRLFRIEND(NOW WIFE) CALLED ME BY HERSELF AND CAME TO ME APOLOGIZING THAT EVERYTHING HAD BEEN SETTLED WITH HIS MOM AND FAMILY AND SHE GOT A NEW JOB INTERVIEW SO WE SHOULD GET MARRIED..I DIDN’T BELIEVE IT COS THE SPELL CASTER ONLY ASKED FOR MY NAME AND MY GIRLFRIENDS NAME AND ALL I WANTED HIM TO DO… WELL WE ARE HAPPILY MARRIED NOW AND WE ARE EXPECTING OUR LITTLE KID,AND MY WIFE ALSO GOT THE NEW JOB AND OUR LIVES BECAME MUCH BETTER. IN CASE ANYONE NEEDS THE SPELL CASTER FOR SOME HELP, HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS;okutemple@hotmail.com ……HOPE HE HELPS YOU OUT OUR OPPORTUNITY … CONTACT THIS GREAT SPELL CASTER VIA EMAIL:okutemple@hotmail.com

  • Bradley Speck

    Hey Guys,am so so happy..
    I had a problem with my boyfriend six months ago,which lead to us apart.
    When he broke up with me,I was no longer myself,I felt so empty inside
    .Until a friend of mine told me about one of her spells that helped in
    same problem too that she found on a television program. i emailed the
    spell caster and I told him my problem and I did what he asked me to
    briefly make. to cut the long story short,Before I knew what was
    happening,not up to 48 hours,my boyfriend gave me a call and he come back
    to me and told me he was sorry about what has happened, I’m so grateful to
    this spell caster and will not stop publishing his name on the internet
    just for the good work he has been doing.If you need his help,he can cast
    spells like,spells for money,spells for wining lotrtery,medicines to make a
    barren woman pregnant,spells to be brilliant,and so so so many more spell
    of any problems you can think of,you can email him at
    (UNIQUELOVESPELLCENTER@YAHOO.COM)and he will also help you to Dr Akim is
    his name
    (UNIQUELOVESPELLCENTER@YAHOO.COM) I will be forever grateful to you.or you can also call him on his mobile for easy contact on +2348159645271

  • Clara James

    i will love to share my testimony to you all the people in world.

    My name is Clara James form london new york i got
    married to my husband about 2 year ago we start having problems at home
    like we stop sleeping on the same bed,fighting about little things he
    always comes home late at night,drinking too much and sleeping with
    other women out side i have never love any man in my life except him. he
    is the father of my child and i don’t want to loose him because we have
    worked so hard together to become what we are and have today .few month
    ago he now decided to live me and the kid,being a single mother can be
    hard sometimes and so i have nobody to turn to and i was heart broken.i
    called my mom and explain every thing to her,my mother told me about
    Prophet Adesuwa how he helped her solve the problem between her and my
    dad i was
    surprise about it because they have been without each other for three
    and a half years and it was like a miracle how they came back to each
    other. i was directed to Prophet Adesuwa on his email: prophetadesuwaspiritualtemple@gmail.com
    and explain everything to him,so he promise me not to worry that he will
    cast a spell and make things come back to how we where so much in love
    again and that it was another female spirit that was controlling my
    husband he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i
    believe i said OK So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love
    came back asking me to forgive him i Am so happy now. so that why i
    decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem
    contact Prophet Adesuwa the great spell caster on his email Id: prophetadesuwaspiritualtemple@gmail.com

  • how i got back my lover

    MY NAME IS OAT FROM USA I WANT TO TESTIFY FOR THE HELP PRIEST OMIGODO DID FOR ME, HE BROUGHT BACK MY LOVER IN JUST 2 DAYS WITH HIS POWERFUL LOVE BINDING SPELL IF YOU ARE IN ANY PROBLEM REGARDING YOUR marriage OR ANY KIND OF SPELL CONTACT PRIEST OMIGODO ON HIS EMAIL : OMIGODOSHRINE@HOTMAIL.CO.UK OR CALL HIS PERSONAL PHONE NUMBER FOR URGENT RESPONSES ON HIS MOBILE NUMBER ON +2348079367204

    ALASKA, ANCHORAGE

    UNITED STATES

    CALL PRIEST OMIGODO FOR ANY KIND OF SPELL ON +2348079367204

  • tori amri

    Feeling so happy these morning , knowing my husband is on my bed with me . Thank you prophet Salifu for you special prayer and thank you matha for giving me so much faith to believe in his work . If you need help in you relationship or marriage please do contact prophet Salifu on prophetsalifu@gmail.com or prophetsalifu@yahoo.com

  • Melisa Shawn

    Viewers of this testimony should please stop by and rejoice with me.

    My name is Melisa Shawn from Usa, i never believe in love spell or
    magic powers because i believed all of them was scammers and fake until when i
    experienced heart brake with the father of my kids and i came across Prophet Ibu of divinesolutioncenter@hotmail.com
    or divinesolutioncenter01@gmail.com a great online spell caster who just helped me recently to rescue my
    lost relationship with my Husband who broke up with me for good three
    and a half years. When i contacted him, i told him everything that
    happened between me and my Husband and without demanding anything from
    me, he decided to perform a spell cast and after 24 hours surprisingly
    my Husband called me on my mobile and started speaking with me in a good
    manner and as i am sharing this testimony now we are back again into
    our relationship and i’m the happiest woman on earth for Prophet Ibu had done a great and wonderful thing in my life. Come and rejoice with me and if you wish to contact Prophet Ibu for any help i will drop his email ids(divinesolutioncenter@hotmail.com and divinesolutioncenter01@gmail.com) or you contact him through his personal website on

    http://divinesolutioncenter.webs.com/

    He is the best of our time…

  • Blenda Park

    my ex-boyfriend dumped me 5 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I visited the internet for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster (Dr Kasee) help them to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster (Dr Kasee) and explain my problems to him….. he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my boyfriend came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you for helping me to get my love back and your love spell is truely perfect, you are truly talented and gifted i will continue to publish your name on the net because of the good work you are doing.If you need his help contact him now through his email: (onimalovespell@gmail.com)tel +2347051705853 He also specialize on all kind of spell such as:

    1 LOVE SPELL

    2 WIN EX BACK

    3 FRUIT OF THE WOMB

    4 PROMOTION SPELL

    5 PROTECTION SPELL

    6 BUSINESS SPELL

    7 GOOD JOB SPELL

    8 LOTTERY SPELL

    YOU CAN CONTACT HIM NOW AND GET YOUR PROBLEM SOLVED email: onimalovespell@gmail.com

  • lisa jerry

    Hello I am Lisa Jerry ,I am out here to spread
    this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex husband back.I
    was going crazy when my husband left me and my two kids for another
    woman last month, But when i met a friend that introduced me to Priest
    Ohio the great messenger to the oracle of priest Ohio solution home,I
    narrated my problem to Priest Ohio about how my ex Husband left me and
    my two kids and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He
    only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be
    getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need
    to do,After it was been done,24 hours later,My Ex Husband called me on
    the phone and was saying sorry for living me and the kids before now and
    one week after my Husband called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I
    was called for interview in a very big company here in USA were i
    needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed
    that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact Priest Ohio on
    his personal email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is
    too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: priestohiosolutionhome@gmail.com or contact him through his private website at http://priestohiosolutionhome.webs.com and get your problems solved like me….. ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: priestohiosolutionhome@gmail.com or contact him through his website at http://priestohiosolutionhome.webs.com

  • Anderson Ann

    I am Mrs ANDERSON ANN from USA, i want to
    share a testimony of my life to every one. i was married to my husband
    Barry Morgan, i love him so much we have been married for 5 years now
    with two kids. when he went for a vacation to France he meant a lady
    called Clara who en charm him with his beauty, he told me that he is no
    longer interested in the marriage any more. i was so confuse and seeking
    for help, i don’t know what to do until I met my friend Miss Rose and
    told her about my problem. she told me not to worry about it that she
    had a similar problem before and introduce me to a man called Dr Iyayi.
    who cast a spell on her ex and bring him back to her after 3days. Miss
    Rose ask me to contact Dr Iyayi. I contacted him to help me bring back
    my husband and he ask me not to worry about it that the gods of his
    fore-fathers will fight for me. He told me by three days he will
    re-unite me and my husband together. After three day my husband called
    and told me he is coming back to sought out things with me, I was
    surprise when I saw him and he started crying for forgiveness and that
    he never knew what came upon him that he will never leave me again or
    the kids.it was the spell that was casted on him that was working on
    him. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth for what this great
    spell caster did for me and my husband, you can contact Dr.Iyayi on any
    problem in this world, he is very nice, here is his contact
    driyayilovespellhome@gmail.com. or contact him through his website
    address: http://driyayilovespellhome.webs.com You can also contact him through his mobile: +2347032617285. He is the best spell caster.

  • droboitespelltemple

    A GREAT MAN THAT HELP ME droboitespelltemple@gmail.com MY EX IS BACK AM NOW A HAPPY WOMAN TODAY
    My name is Sheryl Chablis, I have been through hell and pain,looking for a good and real spell caster who can help me get my husband back.I have been scammed so many times,by some who claimed to be real spell casters.until i found the real and great spell caster (DR.oboite) who helped me,and solved all my problems concerning my husband who left me since eight months ago.and after that i also took my friend along,who was also having the same problem concerning her husband,who left her since five months ago,and the problem was also solved by the same DR.oboite Cant you see! the real and great spell caster is here,all you need to do now is to contact him when ever you are in any problem related to spell casting.It took me a very long period of time,before i could get this real and great spell caster.So right now is here,and the best for you to solve your problems all thanks goes to droboitespelltemple@gmail.com just free the institution that he will give to you just do the institution and everything is going to be fine with you this man really help me, am now a happy woman with my husband if you are there pass through any problem email him droboitespelltemple@gmail.com just free but you we have to share his testimony after the spell have be cast okay email him: droboitespelltemple@gmail.com if you have any problem like this listed below:
    1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you need child
    (3) if you need promotion in your office
    (4) if you always have bad dreams:.
    visit his email droboitespelltemple@gmail.com or just free after
    the spell your share his testimony in how the DR help you thanks

  • droboitespelltemple

    A GREAT MAN THAT HELP ME droboitespelltemple@gmail.com MY EX IS BACK AM NOW A HAPPY WOMAN TODAY
    My name is Sheryl Chablis, I have been through hell and pain,looking for a good and real spell caster who can help me get my husband back.I have been scammed so many times,by some who claimed to be real spell casters.until i found the real and great spell caster (DR.oboite) who helped me,and solved all my problems concerning my husband who left me since eight months ago.and after that i also took my friend along,who was also having the same problem concerning her husband,who left her since five months ago,and the problem was also solved by the same DR.oboite Cant you see! the real and great spell caster is here,all you need to do now is to contact him when ever you are in any problem related to spell casting.It took me a very long period of time,before i could get this real and great spell caster.So right now is here,and the best for you to solve your problems all thanks goes to droboitespelltemple@gmail.com just free the institution that he will give to you just do the institution and everything is going to be fine with you this man really help me, am now a happy woman with my husband if you are there pass through any problem email him droboitespelltemple@gmail.com just free but you we have to share his testimony after the spell have be cast okay email him: droboitespelltemple@gmail.com if you have any problem like this listed below:
    1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you need child
    (3) if you need promotion in your office
    (4) if you always have bad dreams:.
    visit his email droboitespelltemple@gmail.com or just free after
    the spell your share his testimony in how the DR help you thanks

  • Marjan Viki

    After 9 years in marriage with my hubby with 3 kids, my husband started going out with other ladies and showed me cold love, on several occasions he threatens to divorce me if I dare question him about his affair with other ladies, I was totally devastated and confused until a old friend of mine told me about a spell caster on the internet Dr. Trust who help people with the relationship and marriage problem by the powers of love spells, at first I doubted if such thing ever exists but decided to give it a try, when I contact him, he helped me cast a spell and within 24hours my husband came back to me and started apologizing, now he has stopped going out with ladies and he his with me for good and for real. Contact this great spell caster for your relationship or marriage problem at ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. Goodluck or Ultimatespellcast@yahoo.com

  • Melisa George

    My name is Melissa, My Ex-boyfriend dumped me two weeks ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do, so I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimony of how a spell caster help people to get their ex back so I contact the spell caster and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 48hours that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my ex came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr Aluya, You are truly talented and gifted. Email: aluyakespelltemple@live.com is the only answer. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man.or call +2347059498969.

  • Melisa Shawn

    Viewers of this testimony should please stop by and rejoice with me.

    My name is Melisa Shawn from Usa, i never believe in love spell or
    magic powers because i believed all of them was scammers and fake until when i
    experienced heart brake with the father of my kids and i came across Prophet Ibu of divinesolutioncenter@hotmail.com
    or divinesolutioncenter01@gmail.com a great online spell caster who just helped me recently to rescue my
    lost relationship with my Husband who broke up with me for good three
    and a half years. When i contacted him, i told him everything that
    happened between me and my Husband and without demanding anything from
    me, he decided to perform a spell cast and after 24 hours surprisingly
    my Husband called me on my mobile and started speaking with me in a good
    manner and as i am sharing this testimony now we are back again into
    our relationship and i’m the happiest woman on earth for Prophet Ibu had done a great and wonderful thing in my life. Come and rejoice with me and if you wish to contact Prophet Ibu for any help i will drop his email ids(divinesolutioncenter@hotmail.com and divinesolutioncenter01@gmail.com) or you contact him through his personal website on

    http://divinesolutioncenter.webs.com/

    He is the best of our time…

  • Mary Smith

    Unimaginable and unbelievable. I am Mary Smith from the United States
    and i have a good news to share to the entire world. Do you need your
    ex husband or lover urgently? I wanna tell you that you need not to
    worry because i have a good news for those out there that are faced or
    similar to such situation because there is always a hope and a solution
    to all problem. There is a great spell caster called Great Owologbo who
    can really solve your problem. Getting my lover back is what i can’t
    imagine but when I was losing Jackson, I needed help and somewhere to
    turn badly but my Aunty told me about this spell caster who also helped
    her on the internet. I thought it won’t work but i just tried to give
    this man a chance and i ordered a LOVE SPELL. Two days later, my phone
    rang. Jackson was his old self again and wanted to come back to me! Not
    only come back, the spell caster opened him up to know how much I loved
    and needed him. This Spell Casting isn’t brainwashing, but he opened up
    his eyes to know how much we have to share together. I recommend anyone
    who is in my old situation to try him because he will help you and make
    things be the way it ought to be. If you have such problem or similar
    to this, please contact him on his email Greatowologbospelltemple@yahoo.com thank you Great Owologbo and may your gods reward you for your good deeds..

  • Melisa Shawn

    Viewers of this testimony should please stop by and rejoice with me.

    My name is Melisa Shawn from Usa, i never believe in love spell or
    magic powers because i believed all of them was scammers and fake until when i
    experienced heart brake with the father of my kids and i came across Prophet Ibu of divinesolutioncenter@hotmail.com
    or divinesolutioncenter01@gmail.com a great online spell caster who just helped me recently to rescue my
    lost relationship with my Husband who broke up with me for good three
    and a half years. When i contacted him, i told him everything that
    happened between me and my Husband and without demanding anything from
    me, he decided to perform a spell cast and after 24 hours surprisingly
    my Husband called me on my mobile and started speaking with me in a good
    manner and as i am sharing this testimony now we are back again into
    our relationship and i’m the happiest woman on earth for Prophet Ibu had done a great and wonderful thing in my life. Come and rejoice with me and if you wish to contact Prophet Ibu for any help i will drop his email ids(divinesolutioncenter@hotmail.com and divinesolutioncenter01@gmail.com) or you contact him through his personal website on

    http://divinesolutioncenter.webs.com/

    He is the best of our time…