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In the spirit of Positive Thinking Day last week, let’s take steps to banish some of the most common negative thoughts many of us repeat to ourselves. Being in a negative space is harmful to our overall well-being, because what you dwell on can easily become self fulfilling if you don’t change your mindset.
I’m not good enough. This type of negative thought that can apply to many categories. Maybe you don’t think you’re a good enough mother or good at a sport. Even if you find yourself lacking in something, there’s no need to keep repeating it to yourself. The human brain is an incredible thing. Be inspired by Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, Harvard-trained neuroscientist who suffered a stroke that left her unable to walk, read, write, talk, or remember her previous life. Dr. Taylor took eight years to recover and has since then written a best-selling book about her experience and appeared on Oprah. Keep on working toward something, and watch the leaps and bounds you’ll make.
No one cares about me. To accurately say that your family and friends don’t care about you would be a very rare situation. Maybe you’re being too negative and overlooking the gestures of love they show you. They don’t even have to be big gestures, but it’s the little things they do for you that count. And people may be reacting to the energy you’re putting out; perhaps you think they don’t care about you so you don’t make any effort in your relationships. Start showing people you care, so they can show you back in kind. And if you don’t have good relationships with the people you know, what’s stopping you from making new friends?
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