What Your Clothes Say About You

It's no news that your wardrobe says a lot about you.

What you wear can inform passersby of your type of employment, as well as your ambitions, emotions and spending habits.

And now it's even launched a whole new type of psychology.

Clinical psychologist Dr. Jennifer Baumgartner literally wrote the book on this phenomenon, which she calls the "psychology of dress." In "You Are What You Wear: What Your Clothes Reveal About You," she explains not only how psychology determines our clothing choices, but how to overcome key psychological issues your wardrobe might be bringing to light in your everyday life, or even at work.

"Shopping and spending behaviors often come from internal motivations such as emotions, experiences and culture," says Dr. Baumgartner. "You look at shopping or storing behaviors, even putting together outfits, and people think of it as fluff. But any behavior is rooted in something deeper. I look at the deeper meaning of choices, just like I would in therapy."

We spoke with her to figure out why clothes are so revealing (of our personalities, that is), what messages they're sending and how you can use your wardrobe to change how others perceive you—and even how you think about yourself.

Win a Copy of the Book!

One lucky reader will win a free copy Jennifer Baumgartner's book, "You Are What You Wear."

To enter: Answer the question, "What's your go-to outfit?" by commenting on this story!

How We Use Clothing as an Aid ... and a Weapon

Americans rely on clothing as an economic and social indicator because there aren't official marks of rank such as a caste system or aristocracy, says Dr. Baumgartner.

"When you don’t have a specific system, people come up with their own," she explains. It's what "helps you figure out where you fit in. Especially now, with the economy, with people losing status, maintaining a sense of who we are becomes even more important. Our clothes help place us where we think we want to be. "

She cites the Real Housewives TV series as an example: "Look at the way they focus on money. When they fight, they use logos and designers as a way to put each other down. They're using clothes and accessories both as a tool to know where they fit in and as a weapon against others."

Clothing That Projects a Good or Bad Image

Have you ever been told that you can judge a man by his shoes? Unfortunately, it's not that simple.

There's no one piece or style that makes a person look successful. Dr. Baumgartner recommends the basics when trying to project a positive image: the little black dress, the blazer, the pumps. "With classics, history has done the work for you. It has lasted throughout time, so you already know it works," she says. And what is it that makes a classic a classic? "It has multiple functions, and it's appropriate for different age ranges and body types. It became a classic because it works no matter who you are."

(To help you choose the best wardrobe items to use and reuse, LearnVest created the Essential Outfitter.)

On the other hand, there's no one piece or style that makes a person look unsuccessful. "Anything where it looks like you didn’t take the time or make the effort comes across badly," says Dr. Baumgartner. "The worst clothing is the kind that tries to undo, ignore or hide where or who you are, or the kind that shows you didn't pay attention to your body/age/situation ... Any clothes that prohibit you from doing your job well send the wrong message."

What Your Clothes Say to You, Not About You

study this year from Northwestern University examined a concept called "enclothed cognition." Researchers define it in their report as "the systematic influence that clothes have on the wearer's psychological processes," meaning what your clothes are saying to you, not about you. And how they make you feel.

The researchers distributed standard white lab coats to participants, telling some that it was a doctor's coat and some that it was a painter's smock. All participants performed the same task, but those wearing the "doctor's coat" were more careful and attentive. Their actions were influenced by their clothing.

The same may be true of you. When your friend dragged you out of the house and told you, "Get dressed up! You'll feel better!" after your last breakup/failed interview/lousy day, she was onto something. "When you dress in a certain way, it helps shift your internal self," explains Dr. Baumgartner. "We see that when we do makeovers, and even actors say that putting on a costume facilitates expression of character. That's just as true for everyday life."

Enclothed cognition gives scientific proof to the idea that you should dress not how you feel, but how you want to feel. Which clothes make you feel powerful? Sexy? In control? Wealthy? The clothes you choose are sending a message to those around you, but also to you, yourself.

In "You Are What You Wear," Dr. Baumgartner features some of the most common wardrobe and perception problems. Do you recognize yourself in any of the below?

If you …You might …Consider:
Keep every piece of clothing you've ever ownedBe clinging to the past through the sentimental value of your piecesAdopting the Golden Wardrobe Ratio: Get rid of 2 out of 3 items you own, including anything too big/small, ripped/torn or outdated.
Wear only neutrals, largely devoid of accessoriesBe stuck in a psychological rut, too comfortable to shake it up, or too afraid to draw attention to yourself.Deviating from your routine in small ways (a different route to work, a few new spring accessories--like these inexpensive ways to incorporate trendy polka dots--to jog your brain into feeling excited
Dress in clothing too large for your bodySee your body differently than others see it, or as a reflection of the way it once was.Bringing an honest friend shopping to find out what looks great on you, ignoring sizes and getting used to wearing clothes that really fit.
Have been told you're dressed inappropriately or too sexilyConsider the same outfit appropriate for every occasion (i.e. clubbing and family barbecue), or be looking for the wrong kind of attention.Consider the image you want to project in given situations (at work, on the town) and choose outfits based on cues from those around you
Dress too young (or too old) for your ageBe trying to express the age you feel you are, but getting caught between your actual and internal ageGearing your outfits toward your goals (like getting a promotion, meeting a significant other, traveling the world), rather than a specific age.
Are always in work clothesValue yourself primarily through your work and work-related accomplishmentsRecognizing your talents outside of work (great artist, compassionate, fun to bring to parties, etc.)
Covered in designer logosThink you need to broadcast wealth in order to be treated well by othersPractice wearing "blank canvas" pieces and only accenting with logos to emphasize that people value you for more than your labels
Live in your "mom outfit" of jeans and a hoodiePut the needs of your family before your ownTake more "me time." Remember: When mom isn't happy, nobody is.

GIVEAWAY ALERT: One lucky reader will win a free copy Jennifer Baumgartner's book, "You Are What You Wear: What Your Clothes Reveal About You." To enter, answer the question, "What's your go-to outfit?" in comments below.

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  • Scottce Cs

    Flat, black knee-high boots with dark wash skinny jeans, a black braided belt, black v-neck t-shirt, my favorite grey leather jacket, pearl earrings, and a colorful scarf to top it off!

  • Trish D

    My go to outfit is a pair of dark brown pinstripe dress pants an orange silk blouse and loafers. Comfortable and not boring black.

  • chae

    Sorry to say… it’s sweats, hands down! 

  • http://twitter.com/brilliance13 Ann

    jeans and a fitted tee is my go-to outside of work

  • Betty

    I loved reading the answers to this post, but would also love to know how much your readers spend on clothes per year.  

    For those wanting to develop their style, in addition to the book mentioned I’d suggest The Little Black Book of Style by Nina Garcia, Harper’s Bazar Great Style by Jenny Levin, and any of the Chic Simple What Should I Wear series, before you go out and buy clothes you’ll regret later!  Do your research to understand what style you want for yourself and what will look best on you.

    My go to outfit consists of dark wash jeans, a form-fitting top to accentuate my hour glass figure, and a luxe sweater or blazer (also form-fitting).  Flats or wedges depending on occasion.  I like luxe colors too, like beige, wine, and navy.  I always try to find tops that look luxe but are machine washable, I’m trying to understand the fabrics that would work best for retaining integrity over time but so far I’ve only found that 100% cotton works best. 

    I am also trying to forecast what I will look good in when I am older, so I wont have to start over when I’m 45 (currently early 20s).  It’s difficult, but I have a feeling black and other solid “boring” staples (like a grey blazer) would not have the same oomph on older women as they do on younger.  I think older women look better in clothing with more character, such as tailored fitted jackets in interesting colors and textures.  But I could be totally wrong! Maybe we are just meant to dress differently in our different stages of life.  :)

  • Dia

    Tank top and shorts/jeans =)

  • cindy

    My black jeans with either a short or long sleeve top….

  • linniez

    Jeans, a button down, and a cardigan…that way I am layered, AND always ready to shop, easy to change. Usually add a scarf and/or necklace, belt or other accesories. Always a heel since I am short. (I am 5’1, 53 years old, and I love to shop. I spend a LOT of money on clothes…a couple hundred dollars a week)

  • Cynthia

    Skinny Jeans, white cotton shirt and espadrilles, soo comfy  

  • Melle Coble

    Jeans, flowy blouse, comfy undies, and a ponytail!

  • http://www.taliashewrote.com thdpr

    Jean skirt, 3/4 top, and chucks. Modest clothing may be hard to find at first but after a while it’s super easy. I only wear skirts and that’s the challenge… finding knee length skirts and finding shoes that are cute and comfy with them!

  • catms

    jeans or pants, cami, cardigan sweater, and comfortable shoes

  • http://twitter.com/melschol mel schol-guti

    My go-to is an a-line skirt, a crewneck shell, and a cardigan/wrapigan with ballet flats and other fun accessories. I dress modestly, but that doesn’t mean I don’t put effort into my appearance.
    I totally tell others the same info as is in this article, and will definitely buy the book (if I don’t win it of course).

  • http://profile.yahoo.com/YKKVRLOX3JPLQ7E4WXTR7PJ2LA Melissa

    unfortunately it’s work t-shirt and jeans for me most of the time.

  • KTorva

    I totally found myself in the mom-outfit category! I actually dropped my daughter off in tennis shoes! In the summer I can live in sun dresses, but definitely need help dressing myself for success.

  • Gerilee

    I am the 501 button fly blue jeans and hoodie with tenny shoes outside of work, and even at times at work. most of my time is devoted to my family(kids) and my job. On thoes few occations that I get the privilage to go out…… then its dressy jeans, flats and a turrtle neck sweater..

  • Blkbltbec

    Black pants! I have a bunch of them and usually paired with a teal knit shirt, I have a bunch of those too.

  • Rayatrhine

    I decided to dress more boho once I became a happier person, that way I could feel more at peace.  My go-to outfit is the one I am wearing right now: patchwork floor length skirt with a tan shirt with white ‘puffy’ sleeves.  I feel like a hippy princess and that makes me happy.

  • kalan8

    My go-to outfit is a pair of jeans, my Vince striped T-shirt, a long cashmere hooded cardigan and black flats.  I always feel comfortable and put-together!

  • Miami in Paris

    My go-to outfit is a thermal long sleeve shirt, covered by a long sleeve shirt, one of my grandma’s old sweaters, and jeans with danish leather clogs. Haven’t figured out how to be stylish and keep warm at the same time.

    • goldberry

      I have a similar style— but it’s not that hard to be stylish if you just pick jeans, shirt and sweater that fit well and look sharp, not ratty.

  • Alice

    I am a costume shop manager at a small theater, and freelance at several others.  It sounds crazy, but people always assume you know what you’re doing if you wear really standout shoes while working with costumes.  I walked in to a departmental meeting as an hourly employee in bright orange wedges, and walked out with a promotion, salaried and with benefits.  And my theater manager complimented my outfit.  

    • ursula

      love it!

  • Shannon

    My go-to outfit for when I want to feel put together, fresh, confident, and sexy is a pair of beige well fitted slacks with a gray plaid ruffle top shirt tucked in and a pair of brown boots! It makes me feel amazing and I love to wear it!

  • Ianni Angela

    Jeans, white collared shirt, pumps, and a bold necklace. It’s crisp, clean, and gives the appearance of confidence and professionalism no matter where I am.

  • Kerri

    Go to outfit depends on where I am going. But when I need to be professional, black slacks, white collard shirt, pearl necklace, and black flats. 

    • ursula

      And when you are not professional?

  • Julie

    For work probably black pants and my silk blue tank top with a sweater because my office is always over-air conditioned (paired with my favorite bright yellow wedges).  On the weekend, I usually stick to jeans and a cardigan and flats of some sort, since I walk a lot.

  • Surfmama

    I can wear whatever I want to work so I dress for the weather. Summer means crops and pretty shirts with comfortable but nice looking sandals. Winter is long jean style pants in different colors with layered tops and /or cashmere sweaters and closed toe shoes or boots.

  • Dee

    My go-to pieces are are a pair of black pants (with elastic in them – for ANY day) and one of my many cardigans, along with a top that’s season or situation appropriate. Could be anything from a tshirt to a knit polo shirt, satin blouse or tank. I work in casual offices and at home, so thankfully, I don’t have to dress ‘up’ too much, outside of my comfort level.

    • Ursula

      Love the elstic topped pants, Jeans, shorts, skirts etc….you get it comfort first

  • storrance1968

    My go-to pieces are almost always black, white, khaki, and occasionally gray. At work (I’m a teacher), I always resort to wearing khaki pants or plain skirt w/ a tee shirt. Running errands, you’ll always find me in jeans and a tee shirt. And, at home, I’m usually in PJ pants or sweats. I enjoyed this article and realize that my clothing choices do reflect my mental/emotional state. In order to change how I feel on the inside, I need to make some changes on the outside.

  • Eva Lipiec

    My go-to outfit depends on the weather, but I feel best in a beachy maxi dress, either dressed up with a blazer and wedges or down with a long sleeve and flip flops. Maxis are great because they are demure enough for any situation but can be dressed up with heels and some accessories. They make me feel like it’s summer all year round!

  • Malori

    My go-to outfit is a pair of skinny jeans, a solid colored tank, a bright and colorful scarf, a cute cardigan, and some heels.  Comfortable, functional, and easy to change-up!

  • CB

    My go-to outfit is a skirt suit with sassy shoes.  I look pulled together, but still have a bit of personality thrown in!

  • Suzan

    My go to outfit is a dress with a cardigan or blazer.  It can be dressed up or down with accessories and/or shoes.

  • Christie

    My go-to outift is my favorite black sheath dress with a bright blue
    cardi, black waist belt, and pumps. I rock it out with upscale jewelry and I
    know that it accentuates my figure, brings out my eyes, and exudes
    classy, professional, and confident. I can go from work to the local bar
    and feel completely comfortable because I know that, wherever I am, my
    outfit is awesome.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1066989235 Rapunzel Suguitan

    My go-to outfit is my black skinny jeans and a flowy tank top and cardigan.  I can always dress it up with accessories and pumps for work, or dress it down and wear gold sandals!

  • Mkshrader

    My outfit is a skinny black jean/pant, a short off -white jacket which somehow makes me look fairly thin, and any tank underneath it.  Somehow it always looks put together, professional, and I can wear it almost anywhere, except to a job interview (except on a Friday, which you can explain away by being in a very casual office before your interview!).  Black pumps, oxfords or sandals all work with this.

  • whenpigsfly

    I’m constantly in jeans and riding breeches. I’ve got dogs and horses and constantly am trying to stay clean. Maybe I need to get out more.

  • K-Finn

    Long, lightweight gray shirt with thin black stripes, red belt with silver circle cutouts, dark jeans, 4-in open-toed black platform heels, silver bracelet & a big black purse with silver accents.  Ready in 3 minutes – Kapow!! 

  • ursula coleman

    I dress for the place I a going,Bikers leather,work suits. casual jeans, big nite diner fancy and sexy,   I love people and dress accordingly,,mirror images, but almost everthing I where has some sparkle or funky jewelry to wear, love shoes work pumps anyother time boots many styles or flip flops snd sndels, I also have fun in wigs, you never know what you will get from me…lol  I would love to learn how to do the right thing, clean out the closet, get organized…help I need you!

  • Colemanursula

    Try something new!  Something you would never wear, you might be surpized, bring yor best friend they WILL tell you the truth.  Spread your wings and fly to the nearest mall have fun.

  • Ursula

    Shame on you!

  • Ursulathebest

    Help I really need this book, so do many others I see out here.  Come on sweats?  Jeans and belly shirts as an older woman?  Jeans and Tee’s nothing else?  Read her book should help

  • Ursulathebest

    Hope you are a youngster

  • Melonie

    Melonie
    My go to outfit for work is a quality pair of black slacks, the fitted dress shirt with cuffs and a short jacket that is red, or black and a black wedge heel shoe or dress boots depending on the weather. I use colorful assesories to make the out fit pop. scarves are great for adding some pizzaz to your business look. Weekends are a pair of skinny jeans cute loafers, sandals or riding boots and a nice bulky sweater, lightweight twin set or peasant blouse. It may be a little boring hmm….

  • Helene

    I like uniforms of a sort — simple jeans, pima cotton tops, a wrap around sweater for warmth (air conditioned rooms in summer and snow in winter) and comfortable shoes that are easy to walk in. Then accessorize with jewelry and scarves

  • Lynne

    For work I wear royal blue scrubs.( provided by my employer).  My “other” outfit is a great fitting pair of jeans that accentuate my beautful long legs, sandals with a 2 inch heel, and a soft cotton t shirt cut for a female body.  No guy t shirt here.  On the outside, I probaly look average, however, I always have beautiful lingere underneath.  It’s like my personal secret!

  • guest

    My go-to outfit are medium-high-cut skinny blue jeans that are a hand-me-up from my teen-aged son.  He also gave me a blue peacoat made of sweatshirt material (found in the trunk of his friend’s car).  These with a skinny striped t-shirt and stacked booties make me feel stylish yet comfortable.  I don’t fit into clothing for women my age (57) because I’m too small and I avoid teen clothes that are “too young” for me.  Luckily, I raised my son with impeccable taste, a strong fashion sense and the generosity to want to keep his poor old Mom well dressed.  I suspect this book could help me bump it up to the next level.

  • SusanEJ

    My go-to outfit is a stretchy purple top (square cut at the neckline, showing a little cleavage) with 3/4 inch sleeves and slimming black knit slacks (boot cut). The top is close fitting enough to show my figure in a flattering way, and the color makes my blue eyes “pop.” With accessories, the outfit can be dressed up as well. I always get a positive response when I wear it, and that gives me an ego boost.   

  • Kahearn

    Jeans & a t-shirt

  • Rap

    My go-to outfit for interviews is a black pencil skirt that hits either above or below the knee – middle of the knee is frumpy and makes a bad line – sheer black hose, black suede pumps that are comfortable. The top is a crisply ironed white shirt with French cuffs and some other interesting details (I adore crisp, white shirts!). A black jacket with a flattering cut. A choice of scarves: either a mulit-colored smaller scarf tied around my neck or a large multi-colored scarf thrown over one shoulder. Simple gold hoops or simple drop-pearl ear rings and a long strand of costume pearls wrapped around my wrist several times. Whenever I am dressed this way, people around me snap-to and eye contact is always made during conversation. Knowing how to walk in heels is a plus and a good, clean make-up with a lipstick that pops everything make a huge difference. 

  • kschmalix

    skinny jeans, tank top and any fitted blazer. boots or flats