DIY or Not: When to Skip the Hair Stylist

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Talk about hating paperwork: Four in ten Americans would rather cut their own hair than do their taxes without the help of an accountant.

Actually, we would rather not pay anyone to do something we could do ourselves. So, in our DIY or Not series, we convince the experts to give us the inside scoop on when we do — and when we don’t—need to pay them a visit, plus tips on how to DIY well.

In our first story we asked an accountant when it’s OK to do your own taxes. But now, since spring is the perfect time to freshen up your look, it’s a also great time to cut down on those pesky hair expenses. We just want to make sure you don’t find yourself in a tough spot (or with a terrible haircut).

To get the facts on the rules and tips for doing your own hair without penalty to your self-esteem or social life, we talked to Eugene Toye, a stylist at the Rita Hazan Salon in New York City.

Here’s what he told us:

Don’t Visit Me If:

  • You’re handy with the blow dryer. Getting your hair blown out for a special event is one of the least essential salon services. Most salons include a blow dry in the price of the service, but other places like the Hair Cuttery will charge less if you forgo the hot air. Note: If you’re doing it at home, be wary of “salon grade” hair dryers and tools. They come with professional grade heat, which could burn.

  • You need to straighten out…your hair, that is. If you have “virgin hair”—hair that’s free of highlights and other treatments—you could try a home straightening treatment, like this well-reviewed relaxer by PHYTO. Before doing your whole head, test it on a small patch of hair. Most women love the results of an at-home relaxer, but some experience occasional negative side effects.
  • You want extra tresses. Normal clip-on hair extensions you’d find in the store can give you long, lush locks for a short time. Of course, find a good color match for your hair so you’ll look classy, not trashy.

Visit Me If:

  • You’re looking for highlights. It’s one thing to use temporary hair dye, but putting bleach on your hair is another. And screwing up is costly: Color correction for clients who have highlighted their own hair can be one of the most expensive items on a salon’s menu.
  • Your craving a perm. Perms may be back in style, but they aren’t any easier than the first time around. Don’t do anything yourself that could result in long-term damage. (“Perm” is short for permanent. ‘Nuff said.)
  • You need a haircut. Hair cutting is the last thing you should do yourself. Trimming split ends might be viable for the rare woman with a long, straight, non-layered ’do (or movie characters going through dramatic life changes), but most of us require more layered haircuts to show our face to its best advantage. Leave this to someone who knows what he’s doing and has the right tools, like razors and good-quality scissors.

Maybe Visit Me If:

  • You need to trim your bangs. It’s not rocket science to trim your own bangs, but it’s hard to achieve the same precision as your stylist when it’s just you in a bathroom (with higher odds of screwing up). And there’s not much to lose by going in: Many stylists will trim your bangs for free as thanks for being a customer. Opinions differ on tipping, but about $5 is standard.
  • You want semi-permanent color. Hair coloring can cost a lot, especially if you go in every few months. Using color from the box means that you won’t benefit from a professional’s color recommendations and touch, but semi-permanent color rinses out over a few weeks, so it’s a good option for changing up your look without the huge risk. (Try one of these six at-home dyes.)

A good rule of thumb is not to do anything permanent on your own, since it will be harder, and more harmful to your hair, to fix. Try out any new colors or relaxers on small bits of hair before going all out, and just use your best judgment when deciding whether a salon visit makes the most sense for you.

Also find out what products you should pick up during your salon visit, and which ones you can get right over the counter. Check out our recommendations here.

  • http://www.smartmouthblog.com Nicole Longstreath

    We would all love to think we can do the job of a hairstylist, but I’m afraid it’s a service best left to the professionals.

    I would advise against cutting one’s own bangs; unless you’ve done it all your life because you will probably be disappointed with the results. Speaking from personal experience, here.

    Things like highlights are pricey because they’re so labor-intensive. If going to the stylist for highlights is too expensive, then consider choosing a different style, or maybe subtle highlights in the front only.

    http://www.smartmouthblog.com

  • http://www.smartmouthblog.com Nicole Longstreath

    We would all love to think we can do the job of a hairstylist, but I’m afraid it’s a service best left to the professionals.

    I would advise against cutting one’s own bangs; unless you’ve done it all your life because you will probably be disappointed with the results. Speaking from personal experience, here.

    Things like highlights are pricey because they’re so labor-intensive. If going to the stylist for highlights is too expensive, then consider choosing a different style, or maybe subtle highlights in the front only.

    http://www.smartmouthblog.com

  • http://www.smartmouthblog.com Nicole Longstreath

    We would all love to think we can do the job of a hairstylist, but I’m afraid it’s a service best left to the professionals.

    I would advise against cutting one’s own bangs; unless you’ve done it all your life because you will probably be disappointed with the results. Speaking from personal experience, here.

    Things like highlights are pricey because they’re so labor-intensive. If going to the stylist for highlights is too expensive, then consider choosing a different style, or maybe subtle highlights in the front only.

    http://www.smartmouthblog.com

  • http://www.smartmouthblog.com Nicole Longstreath

    We would all love to think we can do the job of a hairstylist, but I’m afraid it’s a service best left to the professionals.

    I would advise against cutting one’s own bangs; unless you’ve done it all your life because you will probably be disappointed with the results. Speaking from personal experience, here.

    Things like highlights are pricey because they’re so labor-intensive. If going to the stylist for highlights is too expensive, then consider choosing a different style, or maybe subtle highlights in the front only.

    http://www.smartmouthblog.com

  • http://www.smartmouthblog.com Nicole Longstreath

    We would all love to think we can do the job of a hairstylist, but I’m afraid it’s a service best left to the professionals.

    I would advise against cutting one’s own bangs; unless you’ve done it all your life because you will probably be disappointed with the results. Speaking from personal experience, here.

    Things like highlights are pricey because they’re so labor-intensive. If going to the stylist for highlights is too expensive, then consider choosing a different style, or maybe subtle highlights in the front only.

    http://www.smartmouthblog.com

  • http://www.smartmouthblog.com Nicole Longstreath

    We would all love to think we can do the job of a hairstylist, but I’m afraid it’s a service best left to the professionals.

    I would advise against cutting one’s own bangs; unless you’ve done it all your life because you will probably be disappointed with the results. Speaking from personal experience, here.

    Things like highlights are pricey because they’re so labor-intensive. If going to the stylist for highlights is too expensive, then consider choosing a different style, or maybe subtle highlights in the front only.

    http://www.smartmouthblog.com

  • http://www.smartmouthblog.com Nicole Longstreath

    We would all love to think we can do the job of a hairstylist, but I’m afraid it’s a service best left to the professionals.

    I would advise against cutting one’s own bangs; unless you’ve done it all your life because you will probably be disappointed with the results. Speaking from personal experience, here.

    Things like highlights are pricey because they’re so labor-intensive. If going to the stylist for highlights is too expensive, then consider choosing a different style, or maybe subtle highlights in the front only.

    http://www.smartmouthblog.com

  • mkKitty

    This is SO funny – I JUST trimmed my hair for the first time EVER last night. It turned out ok. I followed the lines already present and did a small piece at a time. My ends are curly and my cut is shoulder length so the shape of the style is not very distinct. I trimmed less than a 1/2″.
    The result: not an improvement on a salon cut but definitely a step up from the split ends I’ve developed in the last 6 months – I’ve just been too busy to stop in for a cut.

  • mkKitty

    This is SO funny – I JUST trimmed my hair for the first time EVER last night. It turned out ok. I followed the lines already present and did a small piece at a time. My ends are curly and my cut is shoulder length so the shape of the style is not very distinct. I trimmed less than a 1/2″.
    The result: not an improvement on a salon cut but definitely a step up from the split ends I’ve developed in the last 6 months – I’ve just been too busy to stop in for a cut.

  • mkKitty

    This is SO funny – I JUST trimmed my hair for the first time EVER last night. It turned out ok. I followed the lines already present and did a small piece at a time. My ends are curly and my cut is shoulder length so the shape of the style is not very distinct. I trimmed less than a 1/2″.
    The result: not an improvement on a salon cut but definitely a step up from the split ends I’ve developed in the last 6 months – I’ve just been too busy to stop in for a cut.

  • mkKitty

    This is SO funny – I JUST trimmed my hair for the first time EVER last night. It turned out ok. I followed the lines already present and did a small piece at a time. My ends are curly and my cut is shoulder length so the shape of the style is not very distinct. I trimmed less than a 1/2″.
    The result: not an improvement on a salon cut but definitely a step up from the split ends I’ve developed in the last 6 months – I’ve just been too busy to stop in for a cut.

  • mkKitty

    This is SO funny – I JUST trimmed my hair for the first time EVER last night. It turned out ok. I followed the lines already present and did a small piece at a time. My ends are curly and my cut is shoulder length so the shape of the style is not very distinct. I trimmed less than a 1/2″.
    The result: not an improvement on a salon cut but definitely a step up from the split ends I’ve developed in the last 6 months – I’ve just been too busy to stop in for a cut.

  • mkKitty

    This is SO funny – I JUST trimmed my hair for the first time EVER last night. It turned out ok. I followed the lines already present and did a small piece at a time. My ends are curly and my cut is shoulder length so the shape of the style is not very distinct. I trimmed less than a 1/2″.
    The result: not an improvement on a salon cut but definitely a step up from the split ends I’ve developed in the last 6 months – I’ve just been too busy to stop in for a cut.

  • mkKitty

    This is SO funny – I JUST trimmed my hair for the first time EVER last night. It turned out ok. I followed the lines already present and did a small piece at a time. My ends are curly and my cut is shoulder length so the shape of the style is not very distinct. I trimmed less than a 1/2″.
    The result: not an improvement on a salon cut but definitely a step up from the split ends I’ve developed in the last 6 months – I’ve just been too busy to stop in for a cut.

  • mkKitty

    This is SO funny – I JUST trimmed my hair for the first time EVER last night. It turned out ok. I followed the lines already present and did a small piece at a time. My ends are curly and my cut is shoulder length so the shape of the style is not very distinct. I trimmed less than a 1/2″.
    The result: not an improvement on a salon cut but definitely a step up from the split ends I’ve developed in the last 6 months – I’ve just been too busy to stop in for a cut.

  • Marissalicata

    I trim my own hair all the time, or get a friend to do an inch straight across the bottom then do my own layers…its not that hard but my hair is super long and curly so i wouldn’t advise doing this if you have short hair since if you mess up you probably cant fix it!

    • Sheila

      I’ve trimmed my hair as well. It’s pretty easy if you have curls and just can’t get to the hairstylist. It at least gets the split ends off. I’ve colored my hair myself too. It might not last as long, but I’m saving a ton of money.

    • Sheila

      I’ve trimmed my hair as well. It’s pretty easy if you have curls and just can’t get to the hairstylist. It at least gets the split ends off. I’ve colored my hair myself too. It might not last as long, but I’m saving a ton of money.

    • Sheila

      I’ve trimmed my hair as well. It’s pretty easy if you have curls and just can’t get to the hairstylist. It at least gets the split ends off. I’ve colored my hair myself too. It might not last as long, but I’m saving a ton of money.

    • Sheila

      I’ve trimmed my hair as well. It’s pretty easy if you have curls and just can’t get to the hairstylist. It at least gets the split ends off. I’ve colored my hair myself too. It might not last as long, but I’m saving a ton of money.

    • Sheila

      I’ve trimmed my hair as well. It’s pretty easy if you have curls and just can’t get to the hairstylist. It at least gets the split ends off. I’ve colored my hair myself too. It might not last as long, but I’m saving a ton of money.

    • Sheila

      I’ve trimmed my hair as well. It’s pretty easy if you have curls and just can’t get to the hairstylist. It at least gets the split ends off. I’ve colored my hair myself too. It might not last as long, but I’m saving a ton of money.

    • Sheila

      I’ve trimmed my hair as well. It’s pretty easy if you have curls and just can’t get to the hairstylist. It at least gets the split ends off. I’ve colored my hair myself too. It might not last as long, but I’m saving a ton of money.

  • Marissalicata

    I trim my own hair all the time, or get a friend to do an inch straight across the bottom then do my own layers…its not that hard but my hair is super long and curly so i wouldn’t advise doing this if you have short hair since if you mess up you probably cant fix it!

  • Marissalicata

    I trim my own hair all the time, or get a friend to do an inch straight across the bottom then do my own layers…its not that hard but my hair is super long and curly so i wouldn’t advise doing this if you have short hair since if you mess up you probably cant fix it!

  • Marissalicata

    I trim my own hair all the time, or get a friend to do an inch straight across the bottom then do my own layers…its not that hard but my hair is super long and curly so i wouldn’t advise doing this if you have short hair since if you mess up you probably cant fix it!

  • Marissalicata

    I trim my own hair all the time, or get a friend to do an inch straight across the bottom then do my own layers…its not that hard but my hair is super long and curly so i wouldn’t advise doing this if you have short hair since if you mess up you probably cant fix it!

  • http://twitter.com/musicgirl77 Scotty Strickland

    I trim my own bangs all the time. But just wanted to add, that if you DO go to a salon for hair colorings, you CAN talk to them about ways to make your “needs” cheaper. I recently was feeling its such an unnecessary expense, even though my husband was more than willing to let me do this one thing for myself. I don’t think its COMPLETELY unselfish on his part, as I am gray-headed, lol. BUT…I did talk to my hairdresser and said I needed to lessen the expense of it all somehow. By her response, I don’t think I was the first to ask this. She had some GREAT ideas and immediately cut my visits by about $75!!! And the difference just isn’t that noticable. So, IF you DO want the splurge but don’t want it to hurt so badly….try asking for alternatives!! I think they are more than willing to work with you rather than lose your business!!

  • http://twitter.com/musicgirl77 Scotty Strickland

    I trim my own bangs all the time. But just wanted to add, that if you DO go to a salon for hair colorings, you CAN talk to them about ways to make your “needs” cheaper. I recently was feeling its such an unnecessary expense, even though my husband was more than willing to let me do this one thing for myself. I don’t think its COMPLETELY unselfish on his part, as I am gray-headed, lol. BUT…I did talk to my hairdresser and said I needed to lessen the expense of it all somehow. By her response, I don’t think I was the first to ask this. She had some GREAT ideas and immediately cut my visits by about $75!!! And the difference just isn’t that noticable. So, IF you DO want the splurge but don’t want it to hurt so badly….try asking for alternatives!! I think they are more than willing to work with you rather than lose your business!!

  • http://twitter.com/musicgirl77 Scotty Strickland

    I trim my own bangs all the time. But just wanted to add, that if you DO go to a salon for hair colorings, you CAN talk to them about ways to make your “needs” cheaper. I recently was feeling its such an unnecessary expense, even though my husband was more than willing to let me do this one thing for myself. I don’t think its COMPLETELY unselfish on his part, as I am gray-headed, lol. BUT…I did talk to my hairdresser and said I needed to lessen the expense of it all somehow. By her response, I don’t think I was the first to ask this. She had some GREAT ideas and immediately cut my visits by about $75!!! And the difference just isn’t that noticable. So, IF you DO want the splurge but don’t want it to hurt so badly….try asking for alternatives!! I think they are more than willing to work with you rather than lose your business!!

  • http://twitter.com/musicgirl77 Scotty Strickland

    I trim my own bangs all the time. But just wanted to add, that if you DO go to a salon for hair colorings, you CAN talk to them about ways to make your “needs” cheaper. I recently was feeling its such an unnecessary expense, even though my husband was more than willing to let me do this one thing for myself. I don’t think its COMPLETELY unselfish on his part, as I am gray-headed, lol. BUT…I did talk to my hairdresser and said I needed to lessen the expense of it all somehow. By her response, I don’t think I was the first to ask this. She had some GREAT ideas and immediately cut my visits by about $75!!! And the difference just isn’t that noticable. So, IF you DO want the splurge but don’t want it to hurt so badly….try asking for alternatives!! I think they are more than willing to work with you rather than lose your business!!

  • http://twitter.com/musicgirl77 Scotty Strickland

    I trim my own bangs all the time. But just wanted to add, that if you DO go to a salon for hair colorings, you CAN talk to them about ways to make your “needs” cheaper. I recently was feeling its such an unnecessary expense, even though my husband was more than willing to let me do this one thing for myself. I don’t think its COMPLETELY unselfish on his part, as I am gray-headed, lol. BUT…I did talk to my hairdresser and said I needed to lessen the expense of it all somehow. By her response, I don’t think I was the first to ask this. She had some GREAT ideas and immediately cut my visits by about $75!!! And the difference just isn’t that noticable. So, IF you DO want the splurge but don’t want it to hurt so badly….try asking for alternatives!! I think they are more than willing to work with you rather than lose your business!!

  • http://twitter.com/musicgirl77 Scotty Strickland

    I trim my own bangs all the time. But just wanted to add, that if you DO go to a salon for hair colorings, you CAN talk to them about ways to make your “needs” cheaper. I recently was feeling its such an unnecessary expense, even though my husband was more than willing to let me do this one thing for myself. I don’t think its COMPLETELY unselfish on his part, as I am gray-headed, lol. BUT…I did talk to my hairdresser and said I needed to lessen the expense of it all somehow. By her response, I don’t think I was the first to ask this. She had some GREAT ideas and immediately cut my visits by about $75!!! And the difference just isn’t that noticable. So, IF you DO want the splurge but don’t want it to hurt so badly….try asking for alternatives!! I think they are more than willing to work with you rather than lose your business!!

  • http://twitter.com/musicgirl77 Scotty Strickland

    I trim my own bangs all the time. But just wanted to add, that if you DO go to a salon for hair colorings, you CAN talk to them about ways to make your “needs” cheaper. I recently was feeling its such an unnecessary expense, even though my husband was more than willing to let me do this one thing for myself. I don’t think its COMPLETELY unselfish on his part, as I am gray-headed, lol. BUT…I did talk to my hairdresser and said I needed to lessen the expense of it all somehow. By her response, I don’t think I was the first to ask this. She had some GREAT ideas and immediately cut my visits by about $75!!! And the difference just isn’t that noticable. So, IF you DO want the splurge but don’t want it to hurt so badly….try asking for alternatives!! I think they are more than willing to work with you rather than lose your business!!

  • Anonymous

    This hair styling advice doesn’t seem very racially inclusive. Telltale quote: “Most women love the results of an at-home relaxer, but some experience occasional negative side effects.” Um, maybe that’s true for white women (and I actually doubt that it is), but I don’t know any black women who would put in a relaxer themselves—that’s a recipe for disaster.

  • Anonymous

    This hair styling advice doesn’t seem very racially inclusive. Telltale quote: “Most women love the results of an at-home relaxer, but some experience occasional negative side effects.” Um, maybe that’s true for white women (and I actually doubt that it is), but I don’t know any black women who would put in a relaxer themselves—that’s a recipe for disaster.

  • Anonymous

    This hair styling advice doesn’t seem very racially inclusive. Telltale quote: “Most women love the results of an at-home relaxer, but some experience occasional negative side effects.” Um, maybe that’s true for white women (and I actually doubt that it is), but I don’t know any black women who would put in a relaxer themselves—that’s a recipe for disaster.

  • Anonymous

    This hair styling advice doesn’t seem very racially inclusive. Telltale quote: “Most women love the results of an at-home relaxer, but some experience occasional negative side effects.” Um, maybe that’s true for white women (and I actually doubt that it is), but I don’t know any black women who would put in a relaxer themselves—that’s a recipe for disaster.

  • Anonymous

    This hair styling advice doesn’t seem very racially inclusive. Telltale quote: “Most women love the results of an at-home relaxer, but some experience occasional negative side effects.” Um, maybe that’s true for white women (and I actually doubt that it is), but I don’t know any black women who would put in a relaxer themselves—that’s a recipe for disaster.

  • Anonymous

    This hair styling advice doesn’t seem very racially inclusive. Telltale quote: “Most women love the results of an at-home relaxer, but some experience occasional negative side effects.” Um, maybe that’s true for white women (and I actually doubt that it is), but I don’t know any black women who would put in a relaxer themselves—that’s a recipe for disaster.

  • Anonymous

    This hair styling advice doesn’t seem very racially inclusive. Telltale quote: “Most women love the results of an at-home relaxer, but some experience occasional negative side effects.” Um, maybe that’s true for white women (and I actually doubt that it is), but I don’t know any black women who would put in a relaxer themselves—that’s a recipe for disaster.

  • Karen

    I’m loving this series!

  • Karen

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  • Karen

    I’m loving this series!

  • Karen

    I’m loving this series!

  • Karen

    I’m loving this series!

  • Karen

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  • Karen

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  • Shelly Perko

    This is a great article. I just started highlighting my hair and that’s an expensive maintenance! But I know that if decrease by blow drying, I’ll be able to skip some trims too (trying to grow my hair longer).
    One great app I use on my phone is Qponomics. They have coupons throughout the nation and sometimes I can find a great deal at a salon – always worth it!

  • Shelly Perko

    This is a great article. I just started highlighting my hair and that’s an expensive maintenance! But I know that if decrease by blow drying, I’ll be able to skip some trims too (trying to grow my hair longer).
    One great app I use on my phone is Qponomics. They have coupons throughout the nation and sometimes I can find a great deal at a salon – always worth it!

  • Anonymous

    Sigh, yet another article that doesn’t take into account Black hair…our relaxers really should be done by a professional and there are NO clip-on hair extensions made for us!