Are Inflated Expectations Leading To Overspending?

Libby Kane
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What with the murmurs of tax cuts and the divisive income line resting at $250,000, it can be a bit challenging to summon much sympathy for those whose incomes fall above the line but still consider themselves to be struggling. UChicago law professor Todd Henderson is one of these people, who published his musings on being a member of the “super rich” and became the victim of an internet backlash. His post has since been taken down, but conversation lives on.

Advice For Henderson Works For Everyone

Brett Arends of The Wall Street Journal takes a kinder approach than the general outrage and condemnation—he compiles a list of advice from a financial planner to manage Mr. Henderson’s expenditures. While we have neither earned the “super rich” moniker nor ignited the internet to a fit of author-trashing, we can still recognize wisdom in some of the Journal’s advice.

It’s All About The Mindset

Topping the list of ways to reconcile income and spending is adjusting our expectations. So many of us are under the impression that an SUV is the only car, Europe is the only vacation destination, and private is the only school system. So we need to adjust our expectations—easy, right? Arends’ financial planner says otherwise. Apparently, our mindset is the biggest impediment to reshaping our lifestyles and therefore our costs… which comes as no surprise to those of us with a pair of jeans in our closet from 2001, which we’ll wear again “someday.”

An Expectation Is A Hard Thing To Change

Also recommended are the usual steps—little things like tracking day-to-day spending, and bigger steps like considering relocation, refinancing our home, rethinking cars and schools, and consulting an accountant. But the psychological angle really caught our attention—we’ve already tried to explore the difference between necessity and luxury, but where else are our delusions costing us money? And how can we figure it out? One way is through a series of money challenges meant to cut down our spending, like the one undertaken by Lauren, our financial planner-in-residence. Another way is through careful, conscientious budgeting. But it’s a hard truth that when it comes to money—or dating, or fashion, or school—adjusting our expectations is a challenge in itself.

Tell us in the comments: What’s the most effective strategy you’ve used to reduce your spending?

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  • JaneCramer

    Stopped spendingmoney on stupid things. NOt that hard

    • Savvy

      AGREED

  • Joanne Dunster

    I do the cash and envelopes thing. It’s been a lifesaver in countless situations

  • http://everysixminutes.com Every Six Minutes

    And also stop comparing to others. nnI recently quit my job as a lawyer and struggled quit a lot with the issue of money when making the decision. (Against my better judgment, I actually blogged about it at http://www.everysixminutes.com).nnMoney is a highly personal topic. People have different financial situations and relationships to money and are going to react differently. I think it is too sad that some people couldn’t see past the dollar signs and the words “rich” or “poor” and reacted so vehemently harsh towards Henderson’s highly personal post. These types of reactions obscure the merit of a productive discussion on economic policy.

    • Anonymous

      Thanks for your comment. You are absolutely right. Money is a highly personal topic and good for Henderson for sharing. If there were more conversation about it there would be more knowledge out there.